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Have We Taught Teen Girls to Ignore Red Flags When Dating?

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by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Aug 13, 2025 | Parenting Teens

What happens when we tell girls that “boys will want to push your sexual boundaries”? That’s one of the toxic teachings that we measured in both our books The Great Sex Rescue and She Deserves Better! If you haven’t read them yet,  you should! This week...
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by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jun 5, 2025 | Podcasts, Preparing for Marriage

Let’s talk about dating and finding a mate! This is the subject that Rebecca and I tend to avoid like the plague, because we feel very ill-equipped to talk on it. We both married very young; we didn’t spend a lot of time single; and to make it sound like...
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So many people on this blog have found love through Christian online dating sites! I’m always amazed when I ask on social media who met their spouses online. Hundreds respond! And ever since I wrote The Great Sex Rescue, and began talking about how much the...
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Just because you’re not going to date doesn’t mean you don’t get your heart broken. My article yesterday on how Elisabeth Elliot’s courtship with Jim sounds quite toxic and unfair to Elisabeth blew up on Facebook and social media. Most were in...
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Have you ever noticed that a lot of common Christian sex advice just sounds really icky?

Sex is supposed to be great. Like, really great. So great that it’s hard to keep your hands off each other great. 

So why do so many Christian marriage books present it as another chore to check off of a woman’s to-do list? 

Why do so many Christian sex books portray men as doomed to sexual deviancy? 

We’re on a mission to change the conversation about sex in evangelical spaces. And to do that, we started by scoring our current best-sellers based on a Healthy Sexuality Scorecard. 

Want to see how your favourite book scored? 

You can download the rubric and scorecard (including quotes that explain the score) here, for free!

Get the rubric and scorecard--for free!