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On Elisabeth Elliot’s Terrible Courtship–and Dating Men “Sold Out for Jesus”

On Elisabeth Elliot’s Terrible Courtship–and Dating Men “Sold Out for Jesus”

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jul 26, 2021 | Bare Marriage

Elisabeth Elliot’s book Passion and Purity is NOT a love story. These last few weeks I’ve been reading the big books marketed to young women in the evangelical world for research for our mother-daughter book, and one of those was Passion & Purity. I...
Have We Taught Teen Girls to Ignore Red Flags When Dating?

Have We Taught Teen Girls to Ignore Red Flags When Dating?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jan 26, 2021 | Parenting Teens

What happens when we tell girls that “boys will want to push your sexual boundaries”? We’re in the middle of our debunking series, where we look at things that are commonly taught in evangelical circles, and encourage the church to get it right!...
10 Reasons to NOT Kiss Dating Goodbye

10 Reasons to NOT Kiss Dating Goodbye

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Nov 6, 2018 | Parenting Teens

I didn’t grow up in the “I Kissed Dating GoodBye” culture, but my kids did. I made Rebecca read the book when she was 14 (sorry, Becca!). I told the girls no dating until they were at least 16, and I strongly discouraged it until later.Over the...
PODCAST: The Problems with The Empowered Wife by Laura Doyle

PODCAST: The Problems with The Empowered Wife by Laura Doyle

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Aug 20, 2026 | Abuse, Podcasts

The Emowered Wife is really, really bad. Like horrifically bad. It basically tells women to self-erase and self-censor in order to make husbands have as smooth a ride as possible so that there’s no reason for them to feel triggered, so that they’ll be nice...
What if the Aim of Complementarianism is the Lack of Accountability for Men?

What if the Aim of Complementarianism is the Lack of Accountability for Men?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Aug 17, 2026 | Theology of Marriage and Sex

Is the aim of complementarianism to give men leadership over women? Most complementarians would eventually say yes, even if reluctantly. They would say that God calls men to headship over women, which means that men have to be willing to lead their wives–which...
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Have you ever noticed that a lot of common Christian sex advice just sounds really icky?

Sex is supposed to be great. Like, really great. So great that it’s hard to keep your hands off each other great. 

So why do so many Christian marriage books present it as another chore to check off of a woman’s to-do list? 

Why do so many Christian sex books portray men as doomed to sexual deviancy? 

We’re on a mission to change the conversation about sex in evangelical spaces. And to do that, we started by scoring our current best-sellers based on a Healthy Sexuality Scorecard. 

Want to see how your favourite book scored? 

You can download the rubric and scorecard (including quotes that explain the score) here, for free!

Get the rubric and scorecard--for free!