God Made Sex to Be Awesome. Don’t miss out on it!

The Good Girl’s Guide to Great Sex is the go-to guide for every Christian woman for everything you wanted to know about how to make sex AWESOME in your marriage!

“Every woman needs to read this book…” – Amazon Reviewer

It's time to discover what God meant sex to be!

Do any of these sound familiar?

You’re about to get married, but…

  • You’re new at this and you’re not sure what to expect!
  • You’re wondering if your sexual baggage will impact your marriage.
  • Or you’re just plain nervous that sex won’t be as great as everyone says it is!

Or maybe you’re already married, and…

  • You’re never in the mood
  • Sex doesn’t feel that great
  • Or maybe you can’t figure out what all the fuss is about!

Enter The Good Girl’s Guide to Great Sex!

I just got done reading this book and I loved it. The entire time I kept thinking, “I wish I had this book to read while growing up.” I was completely clueless for my honeymoon and early marriage years. After reading this book, I was able to use all of the advice to help my sexual relationship with my husband. He was thrilled!

Jennifer Jennings

Amazon Review

If that’s you, you’ve found some REAL help at last!

Maybe you’re about to put on that white dress and walk down the aisle, but you’re worried about what comes next. Will you know what to do? Will it be awkward?

Or maybe many anniversaries have come and gone, and you’re wondering if you’ll ever really be able to “let go” and relax about sex. It was supposed to be breathless and passionate–and EASY–but it’s not. Is there something wrong with you?

Let the Good Girl’s Guide to Great Sex put your fears to rest and give you confidence, by showing you why God made sex the way He did, what often gets in the way of a great sex life, and how you can experience sex to its fullest–whether you’re just getting married, or you’ve had years of ho-hum behind you.

What Makes the Good Girl’s Guide to Great Sex Different?

 So many Christian sex books are written by men, for women. World Magazine said that I’m like the “funny big sister” who can explain things, while feeling like we’re in flannel pjs on the couch with a container of Haagen Dazs and two spoons. We’ll talk about the important stuff, woman to woman.

My husband and I both loved A Good Girl’s Guide to Great Sex! I ended up reading it because I noticed that all the sex and marriage books we were having recommended to us (pre-wedding) were written by men. The writers could only conceptually understand sex for me as a woman, but I wanted to hear from someone who experientially understood! So, I found your book. Read it, love it. Then-fiance read it too, and he told me that it helped him understand aspects of my sexuality that he hadn’t previously. Now he recommends it more that I do! So thank you!!


Blog Reader

I’m Sheila Wray Gregoire, the biggest Christian marriage blogger, and I get you.

In the first few years of our marriage, sex was a huge issue. He wanted it. I didn’t. I felt used. He felt unloved.

But then something happened: I asked myself, “If sex is so great for so many people, and God created it to be part of marriage, what if the problem is actually that I don’t understand sex?” 

And that started my journey of research that led to this book. Our marriage has never been the same since.

I struggled in this area of my marriage for years, and I know what it is to be confused, despondent, and wondering what all the fuss is about. But things have really turned around for me, and they can for you, too. And it’s my prayer that this book will be a part of the toolkit God uses to make your marriage thrive!

I’m the “Christian sex lady”. I write more about sex every year than most authors write in a lifetime, and I’ve listened to thousands of comments and emails from women excited about sex, confused about sex, and disappointed about sex. . Let me share what I’ve learned with you, so you can avoid the tension, the confusion, even the lack of sex education–and find freedom!

It's time to discover what God meant sex to be!

Freedom is what God wants for you–in the bedroom and out of it. So often we grow up in Christian circles not being able to talk about sex. But that leaves us woefully unprepared for great sex in marriage! I want to help set you free. 

It was the first book that empowered me. It was the first time I learned I was a sexual being, I deserved pleasure as well. I could take ownership of my sex life. It’s something that I can be vested in. That was the first time that thought was taught to me. 

Melissa Fredericks

Love Hour Podcast

I’m so glad I had some idea of what was normal and not normal, so when we faced issues I knew that they were not ok and that I wasn’t broken, but we did need to work on them.


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Sometimes it’s also our sexual baggage that robs us of great sex. The Good Girl’s Guide to great Sex shows you that you are not your past–and you were made for so much more.

“…so beautiful and freeing. It helped me heal!”

Amazon Reviewer

For most couples, sexual bliss takes time. But that doesn’t have to be your story!

I surveyed over 2000 women for The Good Girl’s Guide to Great Sex, asking them everything about their sex lives.

And do you know when the best  years for sex are in marriage? Years 16-24. It takes a while for things to work like clockwork.

Not just that, but only 20% of women had fireworks on their honeymoons! It can take a while to figure things out.

But it doesn’t need to–when you’re able to silence all the voices from our society telling us that sexy is skanky, and all the voices from church that can too often fill us with shame, and just listen to what sex was meant to be.

When you “get” what sex is supposed to be, your whole marriage blossoms.

Instead of waking up 12 years later wondering if sex will ever get better, you’ll start marriage with having honest conversations about what feels good.

Evening will come, Netflix will shut off. But instead of pulling out the holey grey flannels, you’ll curl up under the sheets naked, excited at what’s to come!

You’ll wake up to a lazy weekend morning, remembering what you did last night. You’ll flirt. You’ll steal kisses. Marriage will be where your sexuality blossoms.

And there’s a FREE 6-Week book study to go along with the book–that you can do individually or with a bunch of super fun friends!

What are people saying about the book?

I just got done reading this book and I loved it. The entire time I kept thinking, “I wish I had this book to read while growing up.” I was completely clueless for my honeymoon and early marriage years. After reading this book, I was able to use all of the advice to help my sexual relationship with my husband. He was thrilled!
Jennifer Jennings

Amazon Review

This book changed my life
and my marriage. I was assaulted by a relative at a young age and I
never really felt “good”. The first year of my marriage was spent
without intimacy, until this book was suggested. It was the baby step. I needed to love my husband like God intended. Thank you so much for writing and for helping women, good or bad.
Anonymous Reader

Amazon Review

This book is a must-read for young virginal brides, but it’s even more beneficial for women like me. I’ve been married for 10 years and struggling with the idea that sex is dirty. This book has helped me to reprogram my brain and bring new life to my marriage. $10 for a book is much cheaper than a lifetime of therapy!
Mum of 2

Amazon Review

What to expect from The Good Girl’s Guide to Great Sex:

You’ll get hope that sex CAN be great–even if kids are hanging off of you all day.

If sex has become blah, or has never been that great (or even if you’re nervous about your upcoming wedding), Sheila will give you hope that you can experience tremendous fun but also tremendous intimacy in the bedroom with your husband.

You’ll feel like you’re chatting with a friend.

While other books on sex from a Christian standpoint are often written by men or by couples, Sheila’s chatty. And she’s a woman. And she GETS you.

You’ll get answers to all those questions you wished you could ask a friend–but were embarrassed to!

Sheila answers all those questions that every woman has, from how things are supposed to work to what to do when they don’t. Nothing is off limits!

What are you waiting for?

The Good Girl’s Guide lays out how sex works emotionally, spiritually, AND physically…while helping you navigate potential roadblocks, and spice things up along the way!

Your book “Good Girl’s Guide” was SO helpful during our engagement and early marriage! I feel like I went into marriage with reasonable expectations and didn’t put so much pressure on myself because of the wisdom in your book.


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The Good Girl’s Guide to Great Sex is the winner of the Grace Irwin Award for the best book by a Canadian from a Christian worldview. It’s one of the top literary prizes in North America, and this little sex book walked away with it! The judges said: “it’s such a needed book that all wives will want to read!” Here’s how the book works:

  • First understand the big picture: Why God make sex the way He did–and why He made men and women so differently!
  • Next, a chapter especially for engaged women with questions about the honeymoon & the marriage (whether they’re virgins or not)
  • Then, the three big areas of intimacy: Physical, Spiritual, and Emotional. All go into a great sex life! Sheila spends one chapter telling how to make things go right, and one chapter telling how to fix problems that come up for each of the three areas of sexual intimacy.
  • Answers to your questions on what’s okay to do in the bedroom–and what should be avoided.
  • Everything you wanted to know about what OTHER people think–the complete survey results of the research that Sheila did with 2000 women, rated their sex life, their honeymoon, and more!

Who was this book written for?

Newlyweds Who Want to Start Well

Worried about your honeymoon? Sheila talks about what to expect–in detail. But what if you’re not a virgin? Or you’ve got tons of baggage? Sheila helps you work through that, too, so that you can start your marriage fresh with a ton of excitement! Best of all, Sheila teaches you how to just relax, and not to get too uptight about what should, or shouldn’t, happen right when you get married.

Young Married Women

Things not working as they’re supposed to? Are you wondering what all the fuss is about? Sheila helps you see sex in a new way–as something which is not just physical, but also emotional and spiritual, too. And she helps you figure out how to make things work more like clockwork in the bedroom, too!

Dealing with Menopause as a Couple--and Still Having Fun in Bed

Women With Questions

If you grew up thinking sex was dirty or bad, and wonder if you can ever actually anticipate sex, you need this book! Or perhaps you have questions about whether or not God can help you get over the baggage in your past–or your husband’s past. The Good Girl’s Guide has answers.

What are people saying about the book?

I just finished your book “The Good Girls Guide to Great Sex” and it has totally changed my outlook on the whole subject. I cannot believe how ridiculous my views on sex were! I was not treating it as the beautiful gift that it is and was acting as if it were a chore that I was only doing as infrequently as possible to keep my husband off of me. We have been married for 7 years and have 2 beautiful daughters. I just want to thank you for your Christian insight. I am so happy. And my husband is too of course and has been every night since I finished reading your book! 🙂
Relieved Blog Reader

I was looking for ways to improve my marriage and sex life. I wanted to spice things up and didn’t know where to turn. I broke down and read 50 Shades at everyone’s recommendation but that didn’t really sit well with me. I found myself googling (unknowingly) the name of your book “good girls guide to great sex.” And then I was introduced to you! I’m not quite done with the book but I’ve had so many ah-ha moments already. Today church was even better than usual!! I’m so looking forward to improving my marriage and love life in a God pleasing way! I think God helped me find you and I’m so thankful!!
Thankful Google Searcher

THANK YOU. And my husband thanks you! Outside of our honeymoon and trying to conceive, our sex life has been pitiful. Less than once a week… 3 weeks wasn’t uncommon. Never allowed him to touch me. He felt guilty, because I never enjoyed it. Never had an orgasm in 5+years of marriage… until last weekend. I have an amazing friend encouraging me to enjoy my husband, but I continually made fun of her when she talked about their sexual frequency. But… boy, was she right. With her encouragement and The Good Girl’s Guide to Great Sex, I jumped right in. Last weekend we had sex 4 times in 48 hours and I had 4 orgasms. Can I get an amen?! I feel like a teenager again. So exciting!
Finally Found Fireworks!

If you want GREAT in your marriage,
The Good Girl’s Guide is for you!

And you can get it in audio format, too!

(and I even narrated it myself!)

God wanted more for your marriage.

Don’t settle for less than what your marriage was created to be. Sex SHOULD be a fun part of your marriage. If it’s not, please read the book. Your marriage will thank you!