“Sheila taught me that sex in marriage is a great thing- not something that is just OK and that you have to do, like my mother told me.” – Blog Reader

Bare Marriage Blog

Sheila has been writing about sex and marriage for over 15 years. Read her latest blog posts here!

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The Pelvic Floor PODCAST Episode: Plus Can You Say Vulva?

The Pelvic Floor PODCAST Episode: Plus Can You Say Vulva?

Do we know how to care for our pelvic floors? And why we should? We're in the middle of our pelvic floor series for June, where we talk about some of the things that can go wrong with the pelvic floor (like vaginismus or postpartum pain), and what to do about it! And...

Latest Series

71: How Much Foreplay is Enough?

71: How Much Foreplay is Enough?

How do you know when you've done enough foreplay? We're starting a new series on the blog right now, leading up to the release of the Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex and the TOTALLY REVAMPED AND REWRITTEN Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex on March 15!You can Pre-Order The...

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You Don’t Have to Say Yes to Selfish Sex

You Don’t Have to Say Yes to Selfish Sex

God does not ask us to consent to selfish sex. In fact, one-sided intercourse is not sex. I can summarize The Great Sex Rescue by saying that sex is supposed to be MUTUAL, INTIMATE, and PLEASURABLE FOR BOTH. That's what God intended. Sex is not merely intercourse...

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