DO YOU KNOW YOUR FAVOURITE BOOK'S TOXIC TEACHINGS SCORE?

Our research has identified that a lot of stuff taught in church about marriage, sex, and gender roles actually leads to worse sex and less happy marriages.

Curious to see how the books fared against our toxic teaching rubric?

Apply the secrets discovered in our ground-breaking research of over 30,000 women and men

Listen to the

Bare Marriage Podcast

Sheila Wray Gregoire hosts the Bare Marriage podcast, where we strip away all the pat answers and the Christian-ese and get back to healthy, biblical, evidence-based advice for your marriage and your sex life.

And we have a lot of fun while we do it.

New episodes every Thursday!

LATEST PODCAST

Podcast: Learned Helplessness & Sex

Podcast: Learned Helplessness & Sex

Can we have learned helplessness with sex?  As we talk more about how to get your sex life out of the pit that one, or both, of you have dug for yourselves, I want to talk about a concept discussed in psychology called learned helplessness (which can also lead to...

LATEST BLOG POST

Does Sex Bond You to Your Partner? Not Necessarily!

Does Sex Bond You to Your Partner? Not Necessarily!

Were you ever told as a teen that if you have sex with someone, you will bond with them?  That if you have sex you will feel so bonded that it will be hard to ever bond with anyone else again? And that when we have sex, we release the bonding hormone oxytocin?  What...

LATEST BLOG SERIES

The Sex Recovery Series: 4 Point Plan to Rebuild Your Sex Life

The Sex Recovery Series: 4 Point Plan to Rebuild Your Sex Life

Sometimes our sex lives and marriages get so messy that we don't even know where to begin with untangling it all.  Sex has become so ugly. We feel distant from each other. We feel unwanted and unloved and used. How do you recover from that? And how do you recover when...

What if Jesus meant what he said when he told us to judge a tree by its fruit?

I (Sheila) have been writing about sex and marriage since 2008. But since January of 2019, me and my team have undertaken the largest and most comprehensive studies ever done on evangelical women’s marital and sexual satisfaction.

Our ground-breaking survey of 20,000 women identified which common teachings in the evangelical church are making marriages and sex lives worse, not better. Today, our mission is to help couples and individuals undergo a “Great Sex Rescue” by shedding those damaging messages and replacing them with evidence-based, biblical, healthy teaching.

Meet the Team

Sheila Wray Gregoire

Sheila Wray Gregoire

Founder of Bare Marriage, award-winning author, and expert knitter.

Rebecca Lindenbach

Rebecca Lindenbach

Sheila's co-author, podcast co-host, and general right-hand-woman.

Keith Gregoire

Keith Gregoire

Keith is Sheila's husband and co-author of "The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex."

Joanna Sawatsky

Joanna Sawatsky

Research Coordinator and Statistician

Connor Shay Lindenbach

Connor Shay Lindenbach

Our Resident Tech Dude

Tammy Arseneau

Tammy Arseneau

Events and Scheduling Coordinator

do you know your favourite book’s healthy sexuality score?

sign up for our newsletter and SEE HOW EVANGELICAL BEST-SELLERS SCORED AGAINST OUR RUBRIC FOR HEALTHY, BIBLICAL, EVIDENCE-BASED TEACHINGS.

“Sheila taught me that sex in marriage is a great thing- not something that is just OK and that you have to do, like my mother told me.” – Blog Reader