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Our research has identified that a lot of stuff taught in church about marriage, sex, and gender roles actually leads to worse sex and less happy marriages.

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Sheila Wray Gregoire hosts the Bare Marriage podcast, where we strip away all the pat answers and the Christian-ese and get back to healthy, biblical, evidence-based advice for your marriage and your sex life.

And we have a lot of fun while we do it.

New episodes every Thursday!

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PODCAST: The 93% Myth That Fathers Matter MOre than Mothers

PODCAST: The 93% Myth That Fathers Matter MOre than Mothers

What happens when churches make up a ridiculous stat--and spread it? Ever heard the stat that when fathers come to Christ first, in 93% of families the wife and kids follow, but when wives come to Christ first, it's only 17%? It's been quoted by J.D. Greear when he...

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Tender Truths for the Evangelical Woman Who Feels Trapped

Tender Truths for the Evangelical Woman Who Feels Trapped

A few weeks ago I got involved in a conversation on X (I still think of it as Twitter) about how to reach women in evangelical spaces who are miserable--but would never Google the problem. How do we let them know that there are other ways to see God? That their misery...

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8 Things to Know about Religious Deconstruction and Exvangelicals

8 Things to Know about Religious Deconstruction and Exvangelicals

Deconstruction is a key term in evangelicalism that nobody knew 10 years ago. It’s a growing movement, and it’s largely misunderstood. I’m dedicating four podcasts to deconstruction, starting tomorrow. We'll begin with Sarah McCammon talking about her book...

What if Jesus meant what he said when he told us to judge a tree by its fruit?

I (Sheila) have been writing about sex and marriage since 2008. But since January of 2019, me and my team have undertaken the largest and most comprehensive studies ever done on evangelical women’s marital and sexual satisfaction.

Our ground-breaking survey of 20,000 women identified which common teachings in the evangelical church are making marriages and sex lives worse, not better. Today, our mission is to help couples and individuals undergo a “Great Sex Rescue” by shedding those damaging messages and replacing them with evidence-based, biblical, healthy teaching.

Meet the Team

Sheila Wray Gregoire

Sheila Wray Gregoire

Founder of Bare Marriage, award-winning author, and expert knitter.

Rebecca Lindenbach

Rebecca Lindenbach

Sheila's co-author, podcast co-host, and general right-hand-woman.

Keith Gregoire

Keith Gregoire

Keith is Sheila's husband and co-author of "The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex."

Joanna Sawatsky

Joanna Sawatsky

Research Coordinator and Statistician

Connor Shay Lindenbach

Connor Shay Lindenbach

Our Resident Tech Dude

Tammy Arseneau

Tammy Arseneau

Events and Scheduling Coordinator

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