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Psychology Today Says Women Are Getting Higher Standards–and Men Are Left Lonely

Psychology Today Says Women Are Getting Higher Standards–and Men Are Left Lonely

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Aug 12, 2022 | Preparing for Marriage, Research

What if men are finding it hard to find a mate because women are getting higher standards? That’s the claim in a new article in Psychology Today that’s going crazy on social media right now:  And I checked out the references the post uses, and they appear...
PODCAST: Can Parents Make it Harder for Their Kids to Marry Well?

PODCAST: Can Parents Make it Harder for Their Kids to Marry Well?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jul 18, 2019 | Parenting Young Kids

It’s time for a new episode of the Bare Marriage podcast! I hope you all will listen, but if you don’t have time, I’ll have some links and rabbit trails below so you can read all you want as well! And consider this podcast “extras”. If...
Am I Too Picky When It Comes to Finding a Husband?

Am I Too Picky When It Comes to Finding a Husband?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jul 12, 2019 | Preparing for Marriage

I have a lot of single readers on the blog (and I’m so glad you’re here!), and recently a woman wrote in wondering if she was being too picky. Her letter is long, but it’s an important one. She writes:   I’m nearly 26 and have never dated...
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Have you ever noticed that a lot of common Christian sex advice just sounds really icky?

Sex is supposed to be great. Like, really great. So great that it’s hard to keep your hands off each other great. 

So why do so many Christian marriage books present it as another chore to check off of a woman’s to-do list? 

Why do so many Christian sex books portray men as doomed to sexual deviancy? 

We’re on a mission to change the conversation about sex in evangelical spaces. And to do that, we started by scoring our current best-sellers based on a Healthy Sexuality Scorecard. 

Want to see how your favourite book scored? 

You can download the rubric and scorecard (including quotes that explain the score) here, for free!

Get the rubric and scorecard--for free!