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Why We Have to Stop Ignoring the Orgasm Gap by Saying Frequency is all that Matters

Once again, Focus on the Family is promoting an article that places the blame on you if your spouse cheats. They're advertising an older article on their Facebook page right now where it encourages you to look for "vulnerabilities" in your marriage to see if it's...

Sexual Confidence Doesn’t Mean You’re Willing to Try Anything in Bed

There's a myth that sexual confidence and being adventurous in bed are synonyms. I think they're related, but only tangentially, and I think the fact that we equate them is part of the problem. In October and November we're talking about sexual confidence. We've...

Can We Have a More Balanced Conversation about Oral Sex?

Have you ever noticed that when we talk about oral sex in the Christian community, we usually frame it as something he wants and she should give? In that now infamous Edinburgh sermon that went viral, for instance, Mark Driscoll talked about how a woman should...

5 Keys to Sexual Confidence After Menopause

With thanks to Femallay, our sponsor for the sexual confidence series. I hate hot flashes. Even your hands sweat. The back of your neck gets clammy. You want to strip in public–which is generally not a good idea. You start to forget things. I’m starting to make...
You Don’t Have to Say Yes to Selfish Sex

You Don’t Have to Say Yes to Selfish Sex

God does not ask us to consent to selfish sex. In fact, one-sided intercourse is not sex. I can summarize The Great Sex Rescue by saying that sex is supposed to be MUTUAL, INTIMATE, and PLEASURABLE FOR BOTH. That's what God intended. Sex is not merely intercourse...

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