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Why Is Marriage Advice Aimed at Healthy Couples?

Why Is Marriage Advice Aimed at Healthy Couples?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Feb 15, 2022 | Abuse

Do you know who reads marriage books and seeks out marriage advice? Usually it’s people having trouble with their marriage! And yet often the advice that’s given isn’t helpful for unhealthy couples, and can even be harmful. And then authors say,...
Can We Talk about Mutual Respect?

Can We Talk about Mutual Respect?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jan 31, 2020 | Resolving Conflict

If you’re reading this as it’s being published, Keith and I are getting on a cruise ship in Buenos Aires to head to Antarctica! But a lot of interesting things happened this week, and I wanted to chime in while I still have good wifi. The theme of all of...
Iron Sharpens Iron: How to Draw Firm Boundaries in Marriage with a Spouse’s Bad Behaviour

Iron Sharpens Iron: How to Draw Firm Boundaries in Marriage with a Spouse’s Bad Behaviour

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jan 27, 2020 | Resolving Conflict

What do you do if you’ve tried confronting your spouse on bad habits that they have, but nothing is changing, and it’s damaging the marriage? Let’s look today at how to draw boundaries and actually see progress in messy areas of marriage. We’re...
Iron Sharpens Iron: How to Speak Up when Something’s Bugging You in Marriage

Iron Sharpens Iron: How to Speak Up when Something’s Bugging You in Marriage

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jan 20, 2020 | Resolving Conflict

How do you ACTUALLY confront your spouse when something’s bugging you? We’re in the middle of our iron sharpening iron series on the blog this month, where I’m talking about how marriage is supposed to make us better people. We’re supposed to...
Iron Sharpens Iron Series: Marriage Should Make You Better People!

Iron Sharpens Iron Series: Marriage Should Make You Better People!

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jan 8, 2020 | Resolving Conflict, Series

Keith has made me a better person because I am married to him. First, there’s the little things. I notice that when I’m alone for several days, for instance, I tend to cocoon and just do whatever I want, which tends to consist of a lot of time wasters....
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Have you ever noticed that a lot of common Christian sex advice just sounds really icky?

Sex is supposed to be great. Like, really great. So great that it’s hard to keep your hands off each other great. 

So why do so many Christian marriage books present it as another chore to check off of a woman’s to-do list? 

Why do so many Christian sex books portray men as doomed to sexual deviancy? 

We’re on a mission to change the conversation about sex in evangelical spaces. And to do that, we started by scoring our current best-sellers based on a Healthy Sexuality Scorecard. 

Want to see how your favourite book scored? 

You can download the rubric and scorecard (including quotes that explain the score) here, for free!

Get the rubric and scorecard--for free!