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How Wholly Unqualified People Shaped Evangelical Marriage And Sex Advice–and Still Do!

How Wholly Unqualified People Shaped Evangelical Marriage And Sex Advice–and Still Do!

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Nov 12, 2025 | Research

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by Keith Gregoire | Apr 20, 2022 | Abuse

How Do You Live with an Emotionally Immature Spouse?

How Do You Live with an Emotionally Immature Spouse?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Dec 18, 2020 | Resolving Conflict

How do you draw boundaries with an emotionally immature/passive aggressive spouse? I thought I was finished with my emotional maturity series, but a wonderful question came in to the blog this week that I thought it was worth running!   I was wondering if you...
A “Bill of Rights” for Biblical Counseling Clients

A “Bill of Rights” for Biblical Counseling Clients

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Apr 5, 2019 | Faith

Can churches do biblical counseling in a safe way? Is there a code of ethics that churches or biblical counselors could adopt to protect clients? I really only intended to write one post about biblical counseling, but I wrote that post, and then the floodgates of...
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Have you ever noticed that a lot of common Christian sex advice just sounds really icky?

Sex is supposed to be great. Like, really great. So great that it’s hard to keep your hands off each other great. 

So why do so many Christian marriage books present it as another chore to check off of a woman’s to-do list? 

Why do so many Christian sex books portray men as doomed to sexual deviancy? 

We’re on a mission to change the conversation about sex in evangelical spaces. And to do that, we started by scoring our current best-sellers based on a Healthy Sexuality Scorecard. 

Want to see how your favourite book scored? 

You can download the rubric and scorecard (including quotes that explain the score) here, for free!

Get the rubric and scorecard--for free!