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The Amazing Step-Parents We Only Have Because of Divorce

The Amazing Step-Parents We Only Have Because of Divorce

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Oct 21, 2022 | Abuse

When churches and denominations deny people the chance to divorce for abuse, they also deny kids the chance to grow up with amazing step-parents. I think we forget that. Those who argue so vehemently that abuse isn’t a valid reason for divorce (as Focus on the...
Can You Divorce for Abuse? Our Tendency to Treat Adultery as Worse than Abuse

Can You Divorce for Abuse? Our Tendency to Treat Adultery as Worse than Abuse

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Mar 3, 2020 | Abuse

Unfortunately (in my mind), there has not been consensus in the Christian world on whether or not a person is biblically justified to divorce in cases of abuse. It’s long been held that you can divorce for adultery, but not for abuse (I explained why I think...
10 Tips for Talking to Your Kids About Your Marriage Problems

10 Tips for Talking to Your Kids About Your Marriage Problems

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jan 16, 2018 | Resolving Conflict

How do you talk to your kids about your marriage problems? It’s Rebecca here on the blog today tackling that big question: what do you tell your kid when you and your spouse just aren’t getting along? We’re in the middle of a week talking about how...

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Have you ever noticed that a lot of common Christian sex advice just sounds really icky?

Sex is supposed to be great. Like, really great. So great that it’s hard to keep your hands off each other great. 

So why do so many Christian marriage books present it as another chore to check off of a woman’s to-do list? 

Why do so many Christian sex books portray men as doomed to sexual deviancy? 

We’re on a mission to change the conversation about sex in evangelical spaces. And to do that, we started by scoring our current best-sellers based on a Healthy Sexuality Scorecard. 

Want to see how your favourite book scored? 

You can download the rubric and scorecard (including quotes that explain the score) here, for free!

Get the rubric and scorecard--for free!