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The Ultimate Flaw in the Book Love and Respect: Jesus Isn’t at the Center

The Ultimate Flaw in the Book Love and Respect: Jesus Isn’t at the Center

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jan 16, 2019 | Resolving Conflict, Uncategorized

This week we’ve been talking about how books like Love & Respect go so far off base. I started with showing how the view of sex in Love & Respect is very wrong. And then yesterday I showed how the concept of a wife giving a husband unconditional respect...
Love and Respect: Why Unconditional Respect Can’t Work

Love and Respect: Why Unconditional Respect Can’t Work

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jan 15, 2019 | Resolving Conflict, Theology of Marriage and Sex

Should you have unconditional respect for your husband, as Emerson Eggerichs claims in the book Love & Respect? I was overwhelmed by the response to my review of Love & Respect’s sex chapter yesterday. Many of you asked for my take on the whole book, and...
A Review of How Love and Respect Gets Sex Horribly Wrong

A Review of How Love and Respect Gets Sex Horribly Wrong

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jan 14, 2019 | Theology of Marriage and Sex

What happens when a bestselling Christian marriage book, like Love and Respect, treats sex as if it’s just for the husband? Sometimes I get overwhelmed by the emails and comments on this blog from desperate people. I’ve been trying to address these things...
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Have you ever noticed that a lot of common Christian sex advice just sounds really icky?

Sex is supposed to be great. Like, really great. So great that it’s hard to keep your hands off each other great. 

So why do so many Christian marriage books present it as another chore to check off of a woman’s to-do list? 

Why do so many Christian sex books portray men as doomed to sexual deviancy? 

We’re on a mission to change the conversation about sex in evangelical spaces. And to do that, we started by scoring our current best-sellers based on a Healthy Sexuality Scorecard. 

Want to see how your favourite book scored? 

You can download the rubric and scorecard (including quotes that explain the score) here, for free!

Get the rubric and scorecard--for free!