Reader Question: What if My Husband Thinks I’m Boring in Bed?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jul 7, 2020 | Making Sex Feel Good

What do you do if your husband accuses you of being boring in bed–or when your husband thinks your sex life is boring? It’s our Sex Questions You Can’t Ask Your Pastor month, and I wanted to start with this one because it’s a great example of...

What Is Real Intimacy? And What Does Sex Have to Do With It?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Feb 14, 2020 | intimacy

What is real intimacy? Is it friendship? Sex? Or more? I met my husband while I was in university. We became best friends quite quickly and were soon spending all our time together, telling each other everything. It was wonderful. About a year and a half into that...

5 Physical Reasons Your Libido is Sub-Zero: How to Bring a Low Libido out of Hibernation

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Feb 5, 2020 | Libido

Feel like you have no libido–as if it’s in hibernation or something? You’re not alone! This post contains affiliate links. I love talking on the blog about how libido is so much more than just physical–how it’s spiritual and emotional,...

Is It Okay to Withhold Sex in Marriage? Let’s Rethink Sexless Marriages

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Nov 15, 2019 | Libido

Is withholding sex in marriage okay? If you’re not a sexual person, or if you don’t think your spouse deserves sex, is it okay to cut them off from sex? A lot of people who are on this blog are desperate because their spouses have sex with them less than...

Does the Way We Talk about Women’s Libidos Make Women Have No Libido?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Nov 11, 2019 | Libido

Personally, I think women’s libidos is largely in our heads. As in, what we think about libido determines our libido. So what is it that we’re told to think? Well, let’s do a comparison here. Decades ago, boys took a lot of math and did most of the...