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What Church You Go To Affects Orgasm Rates!

We’ve got some new findings from our survey of 20,000 women! Behind the scenes, for the last year, between running new numbers for blog posts and podcasts, and presenting at conferences, Joanna Sawatsky (my amazing co-author for The Great Sex Rescue and She Deserves...

Male-Centric Sex: Confusing Willingness to Have Intercourse with Arousal

You can definitely tell if a woman is aroused. But what if some marriage authors or teachers don’t understand the difference between a woman being willing to have sex and a woman being aroused? Too often, teaching around marriage and sexuality centres the male...

PODCAST: Male-Centric Sex vs. The Sexual Response Cycle

What if the sex that is being described by many male authors is actually male-centric? What if the way they're talking about sex actually hints that it's not about her pleasure at all, but is simply focused on his climax during intercourse? That's what we think is...

When He Deliberately Ignores Your Pleasure: What to Do When Sex Has Become One-Sided

Sex must be mutual, about both people’s pleasure. What if he insists on sex that doesn’t bring her pleasure, and doesn’t try to help her reach orgasm?

What Church You Go To Affects Orgasm Rates!

What Church You Go To Affects Orgasm Rates!

We’ve got some new findings from our survey of 20,000 women! Behind the scenes, for the last year, between running new numbers for blog posts and podcasts, and presenting at conferences, Joanna Sawatsky (my amazing co-author for The Great Sex Rescue and She Deserves...

The Obligation Sex Series

  • 10 Things to Know about Obligation Sex
  • Why Obligation Sex Destroys Libido (and how it affects us long-term) (coming soon)
  • A Way Forward to Recovery from Obligation Sex (coming soon)
  • You Don’t Need to Consent to Being Used (coming soon)
  • When Your Husband Won’t Let go of Obligation Sex (coming soon)
  • The Obligation Sex podcast (coming soon)

Previous Posts on Obligation Sex

Previous Podcasts on Obligation Sex

Plus please see our Great Sex Rescue Toolkit for handy downloads about the effects of obligation sex that you can give to your pastor, counselor, small group leader–anyone who teaches it!

And see chapters 9 and 10 in The Great Sex Rescue for all our charts, stats, and commentary!

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