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NEW RESEARCH: Women Aren’t Turned On by Husbands Who Act Like Dependents

What happens to women’s desire level if their husbands don’t do housework? This month, our series on the blog is going to focus on some new studies that have recently been published in peer reviewed journals. We like keeping up with research, and we shared four new...

How The Great Sex Rescue Changed This Couple’s Sex Life

Everyday I get emails, comments, and DMs about how our books are changing lives.  Before we wrote The Great Sex Rescue and She Deserves Better I had written several other books. But the reaction is so starkly different. I’m hearing over and over again about lives...

How Can the Higher Drive Spouse Avoid Giving the Obligation Sex Message?

Being the higher drive spouse can be really frustrating. You want to connect with your spouse, and you want to have a passionate marriage, but it seems like your spouse doesn't share those same desires. And that can feel like a rejection. This is the last post in the...

10 Ways Men Can Initiate Sex with Their Wives (Without pressuring her)

How do you initiate sex with your wife without turning her off? We've been working through an obligation sex series for the last few weeks, and one of the big things I've been stressing is that making your spouse feel like they are obligated to have sex has disastrous...

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Why Obligation Sex Wrecks Your Libido

Why Obligation Sex Wrecks Your Libido

Can feelings of sexual obligation affect your libido long-term? This month we're talking about obligation sex. We started last week by noting 10 things to understand about obligation sex, when I wrote the definitive post of everything that I tend to talk about with...

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