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Has My Sexual Past Doomed My Marriage?
If you’ve been promiscuous in the past, is your future marriage doomed? We're in the middle of our Sex Questions You Can't Ask Your Pastor series this month, and this week we've been focusing on newlywed sex questions--including our newlywed sex question podcast! I...
PODCAST: Newlywed Sex Questions Edition
This week on our podcast is all newlywed sex questions! Welcome to episode 65 of our Bare Marriage podcast--and the third podcast that is also up on YouTube! So you can watch & listen or just listen! We're in the middle of our Sex Questions You Can't Ask Your...
How to Awaken Love…or at Least Stop Feeling Like You’re Broken!
The title of this post may sound corny, but do you remember that verse about awakening love in Song of Solomon? Daughters of Jerusalem, I charge you by the gazelles and by the does of the field: Do not arouse or awaken love until it so desires.Many of us have...
Why It’s 31 Days TO Great Sex
Today, the updated 31 Days to Great Sex launches again! For years, I published it myself, and it sold wonderfully. But I decided that I wanted it to go bigger than just my blog, so I sold it to Zondervan, and then updated it, changed some of the challenges based on...
10 Quick Newlywed Sex Questions You Can’t Ask Your Pastor
Engaged women and newlyweds often have a lot of questions about sex! What will it feel like? Will it hurt? How do we make it feel good? This month, in the Mondays in July, we're talking about sex questions you can't ask your pastor (and in our podcasts, too!). And I...
If Sex Feels Terrible…How Can You Look Forward to It?
So sex feels terrible. You feel nothing--or maybe even some pain. So how do you look forward to it? That's the question that one of our frequent commenters was asking this week, and I feel for her, because I've been in her situation. She's a great commenter (and some...
PODCAST EXTRAS: Sometimes a Vagina is Just a Vagina
Have more sex questions you can't ask your pastor? It's podcast day--and in the month of July I'm tackling all kinds of awkward sex questions! (And don't forget my webinar TONIGHT at 9 pm EST! Your ticket to the webinar covers not just me answering a ton of questions,...
Top 10 Tips for Initiating Sex with Your Husband
Out of the last five times you've made love, how many times have you initiated sex with your husband, and how many has he been the one to initiate? If you say he's initiated all 5, that could be a problem! Now, I know sometimes you just start making love because...
Reader Question: What if My Husband Thinks I’m Boring in Bed?
What do you do if your husband accuses you of being boring in bed--or when your husband thinks your sex life is boring? It's our Sex Questions You Can't Ask Your Pastor month, and I wanted to start with this one because it's a great example of how we need to look at a...
SEX QUESTIONS SERIES: Who’s the REAL Sex Expert for Your Questions?
When you have questions about sex, or you want to improve your sex life, where's the best place to go? This month, as 31 Days to Great Sex launches again, our series will be on Sex Questions You Can't Ask Your Pastor. I want to tackle a bunch of reader questions that...