What do you do if you've lost that spark and you want to be turned on by your husband again? I thought we'd switch gears a bit today and focus on a question that I get from lots of women: they want to be turned on by their husbands, but they're just not anymore. It's...
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It’s RELEVANT–but It Shouldn’t Be Rocket Science! A Spotlight on Two Reviews
The Great Sex Rescue has been featured in two amazing places lately--and I wanted to point you to both! First, Relevant Magazine ran an excerpt from chapter 2--so if you'd like a taste of what The Great Sex Rescue is like, this is a great place to start! Our new book...
How to Reclaim Sex and Not Make it Ugly
Sometimes, the way we talk about the purpose of sex makes it clear that we don't understand the beauty of sex at all. And that needs to stop! Just a quick post today (or what I hope will be a quick post) with a comment about a news story in the Christian world that...
An Open Letter to Evangelical Marriage Authors, Influencers and Speakers about Toxic Marriage Teaching
To my regular blog readers: This is something that I needed to say, and the place to publish it where it will get seen the most is right here on the blog. So excuse me for injecting more discussion of toxic marriage teaching into the blog! I thought, though, that this...
Podcast: On Emerson Eggerichs Gaslighting Emotional Abuse Victims, and Stop Seeing Women as Dangerous
We simply MUST change the way we talk about women in the church, because what is happening is DANGEROUS. In today's podcast, we look at two examples of the dangerous ways we can talk about women: Steve Arterburn and the Every Man's Battle team portraying women as...
Emerson Eggerichs and the Gaslighting of Emotional Abuse Victims in a Sermon Series
Last year, I looked at some rather alarming clips from some sermons Emerson Eggerichs--the author of Love & Respect--gave where he essentially gaslighted emotional abuse victims. I was prepared to let it go--I've talked about it, and let's move on. But in the last...






