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PODCAST: Demolishing the Love and Respect Dichotomy Definitively (with Data)

PODCAST: Demolishing the Love and Respect Dichotomy Definitively (with Data)

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jan 16, 2025 | Podcasts, Research

It’s the podcast where we finally get to disprove the love & respect thesis! Did God make men to need respect, while women need love? Do men prefer respect over love? We’ve been told this for decades, starting with James Dobson popularizing it, and...
PODCAST: Why Did You Believe the Toxic stuff? The Year of Putting Dumb Behind Us!

PODCAST: Why Did You Believe the Toxic stuff? The Year of Putting Dumb Behind Us!

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jan 9, 2025 | Podcasts, Theology of Marriage and Sex

Why did we all get sucked in to toxic teachings about sex and marriage? Because here’s the thing: Unless we understand the why, then even if we leave those toxic teachings behind, it’s very likely that we’ll get sucked into other forms of toxic...
PODCAST: A Peer Reviewed Celebration (And a Plea to Take Science Seriously)

PODCAST: A Peer Reviewed Celebration (And a Plea to Take Science Seriously)

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Dec 19, 2024 | Podcasts

The Great Sex Rescue is officially peer reviewed! We used a subset of our dataset for a paper that was just published in the journal Sociology of Religion.  So we have done it! We have raised the bar on what counts as research in evangelical marriage and sex advice....
PODCAST: Even After Everything: Loving Anyway, Despite the Risks

PODCAST: Even After Everything: Loving Anyway, Despite the Risks

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Dec 12, 2024 | Podcasts

Advent is a time of anticipation, of waiting, of hope. Those weeks leading up to Christmas are supposed to remind us of that in-between period where we know God is going to show up, but He hasn’t done it yet. It’s the not-quite-yet time. But what if, as...
PODCAST: The Problems with Marriage on the Rock by Jimmy Evans

PODCAST: The Problems with Marriage on the Rock by Jimmy Evans

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Dec 5, 2024 | Men's Corner, Podcasts, Theology of Marriage and Sex

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Have you ever noticed that a lot of common Christian sex advice just sounds really icky?

Sex is supposed to be great. Like, really great. So great that it’s hard to keep your hands off each other great. 

So why do so many Christian marriage books present it as another chore to check off of a woman’s to-do list? 

Why do so many Christian sex books portray men as doomed to sexual deviancy? 

We’re on a mission to change the conversation about sex in evangelical spaces. And to do that, we started by scoring our current best-sellers based on a Healthy Sexuality Scorecard. 

Want to see how your favourite book scored? 

You can download the rubric and scorecard (including quotes that explain the score) here, for free!

Get the rubric and scorecard--for free!