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PODCAST: Hurt and Healed by the Church feat. Ryan George

PODCAST: Hurt and Healed by the Church feat. Ryan George

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jul 11, 2024 | Podcasts

What happens if church is the place of your greatest hurt? We’re in our deconstruction series on the podcast, looking at different people’s stories of deconstruction, and trying to honor all of them. What I really want to do is have people hear WHY people...
PODCAST: Breaking Free of Christian Patriarchy & Why people deconstruct

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by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jul 4, 2024 | Podcasts

What’s it like when your family starts out normal, but grows fundamentalist? Today on the podcast we’re interviewing Cait West, the author of just a beautiful memoir, Rift.  She talks about what it’s like to grow up in a Christian patriarchal family,...
PODCAST: Who Are The ExVangelicals? Feat. Sarah McCammon

PODCAST: Who Are The ExVangelicals? Feat. Sarah McCammon

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jun 27, 2024 | Podcasts, Theology of Marriage and Sex

Why do people deconstruct and become exvangelicals? Today on the Bare Marriage podcast author Sarah McCammon, an NPR journalist, joins us to talk about her experience with deconstruction, and what she learned interviewing so many people for her new book explaining the...
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father’s day is coming! And it is a day for celebrating all of the wonderful fathers in our lives, and the work that they do and the love that they show for their families. And what a wonderful time to lift them up. We have several wonderful fathers in our...
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Have you ever noticed that a lot of common Christian sex advice just sounds really icky?

Sex is supposed to be great. Like, really great. So great that it’s hard to keep your hands off each other great. 

So why do so many Christian marriage books present it as another chore to check off of a woman’s to-do list? 

Why do so many Christian sex books portray men as doomed to sexual deviancy? 

We’re on a mission to change the conversation about sex in evangelical spaces. And to do that, we started by scoring our current best-sellers based on a Healthy Sexuality Scorecard. 

Want to see how your favourite book scored? 

You can download the rubric and scorecard (including quotes that explain the score) here, for free!

Get the rubric and scorecard--for free!