When You Realize Grief Has a Mind of its Own

When You Realize Grief Has a Mind of its Own

I startled awake this morning, mid-dream, at 4 a.m., like I do most August 6ths. Because 29 years ago my water broke at 4 a.m. My son would have turned 29 today. The body remembers.    I never know what I’m going to write about on his birthday. I usually...
Why I’m Okay 26 Years After My Son Died

Why I’m Okay 26 Years After My Son Died

On Sunday it will be 26 years since my son Christopher died. I like to remember him on some way on the blog around that time, and since Monday is a holiday, I’d like to do it today. I wrote a piece back in 2016 that meant something to me. I was trying to explain...
How Our Son’s Death Affected Our Daughter

How Our Son’s Death Affected Our Daughter

Tomorrow will be the 25th anniversary of my son Christopher’s death. Every year I like to write something about grief and honor him in some way, even if just to mention him or remember. I honestly am okay, I just get sad around this time of year. My oldest...