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PODCAST: The Complementarian Bar for Men is in the Basement

PODCAST: The Complementarian Bar for Men is in the Basement

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jan 22, 2026 | Men's Corner, Podcasts

One of the things that amazes me is that so little is expected of complementarian men. The last few weeks has shown us that in spades, as so many pastors reacted to Philip Yancey’s affair by saying, “It could have been any of us,” and SBC megachurch...
How Wholly Unqualified People Shaped Evangelical Marriage And Sex Advice–and Still Do!

How Wholly Unqualified People Shaped Evangelical Marriage And Sex Advice–and Still Do!

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Nov 12, 2025 | Research

What Should Men Struggling with Lust Do Other than “Bouncing Your Eyes”?

What Should Men Struggling with Lust Do Other than “Bouncing Your Eyes”?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Nov 8, 2024 | Men's Corner, Pornography, Sex

What if a guy is struggling with lust, but honestly wants to do better? But at the same time, he finds that when he’s out in public, he DOES immediately focus on women’s body parts or imagine them naked. He doesn’t want to. He’s in counseling. He’s trying to stop it....
What Do the “Obligation Sex Message” and the “All Men Lust” Message Have in Common?

What Do the “Obligation Sex Message” and the “All Men Lust” Message Have in Common?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Aug 26, 2024 | Libido

What if there’s a thread running through obligation sex and normalizing men’s lust? Or rather, what if there are multiple threads? When we wrote The Great Sex Rescue, based on our surveys of 20,000 women, we identified four big teachings about sex that are...
The Iowa “Monster Study” and Every Man’s Battle

The Iowa “Monster Study” and Every Man’s Battle

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Aug 23, 2023 | Parenting Teens, Research

What if our advice actually triggers the behaviour we want to prevent? One of my favourite places on the internet is our private Patreon Facebook group, where the people who support us financially hang out. For just $5 a month people can join our Patreon group, and in...
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Have you ever noticed that a lot of common Christian sex advice just sounds really icky?

Sex is supposed to be great. Like, really great. So great that it’s hard to keep your hands off each other great. 

So why do so many Christian marriage books present it as another chore to check off of a woman’s to-do list? 

Why do so many Christian sex books portray men as doomed to sexual deviancy? 

We’re on a mission to change the conversation about sex in evangelical spaces. And to do that, we started by scoring our current best-sellers based on a Healthy Sexuality Scorecard. 

Want to see how your favourite book scored? 

You can download the rubric and scorecard (including quotes that explain the score) here, for free!

Get the rubric and scorecard--for free!