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10 Reasons Why Rushing Forgiveness Ruins Intimacy

10 Reasons Why Rushing Forgiveness Ruins Intimacy

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Aug 6, 2019 | Sexual Intimacy

When you discover that your husband is cheating on you, or using pornography, should you forgive right away and work on rebuilding the marriage? Or if you discover that your wife is cheating on you, should you put that aside for the sake of the marriage and work on...
Are You to Blame if Your Spouse Cheats on You?

Are You to Blame if Your Spouse Cheats on You?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jul 26, 2019 | divorce

If your husband has an affair, are you partially to blame? That’s been something I’ve been debating heatedly on Facebook and Twitter this week, because I saw this Facebook status by Focus on the Family: I found this rather disturbing, and posted it both on...
When Can I Leave My Marriage? How to Know if You’ve Done Enough

When Can I Leave My Marriage? How to Know if You’ve Done Enough

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Mar 11, 2019 | Marriage

When is it permissible to leave your marriage after your spouse has seriously broken the marriage covenant? I’ve been talking all week about big marriage problems (Phew! It’s been a big week. Don’t worry; next week we’re moving on to how to...
When Your Friend is Having an Affair

When Your Friend is Having an Affair

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Dec 6, 2018 | Resolving Conflict

What do you do if you discover your best friend is having an affair? We’re talking about boundaries this month, and how to figure out when to make something your problem, and when it just can’t be your problem. A while ago I answered this question about...
The Pain of Infidelity: Do We Treat Cheating too Cavalierly?

The Pain of Infidelity: Do We Treat Cheating too Cavalierly?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jan 18, 2018 | Resolving Conflict

Infidelity really is playing with fire. When a spouse betrays you in an affair, the pain is just so real, as we’ve been talking about all week. I know this is a hard week for many of you to read, but I just want to take a moment today and say this: for those of...
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Have you ever noticed that a lot of common Christian sex advice just sounds really icky?

Sex is supposed to be great. Like, really great. So great that it’s hard to keep your hands off each other great. 

So why do so many Christian marriage books present it as another chore to check off of a woman’s to-do list? 

Why do so many Christian sex books portray men as doomed to sexual deviancy? 

We’re on a mission to change the conversation about sex in evangelical spaces. And to do that, we started by scoring our current best-sellers based on a Healthy Sexuality Scorecard. 

Want to see how your favourite book scored? 

You can download the rubric and scorecard (including quotes that explain the score) here, for free!

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