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Are Obligation Sex and Marital Rape the Same Thing?

Is all obligation sex necessarily rape? As we’ve been talking about obligation sex this month, starting with 10 things you need to know about obligation sex, and how obligation sex affects a woman’s body, there’s a conversation that keeps coming up on social media:...

The Warning from South Korean Women to the Conservative Evangelical Church

South Korean women are reacting against sexism. Last week on the podcast, we highlighted how the culture in South Korea has been changing as women are being empowered in larger society. No longer are South Korean women left to rely on marriage and men to ensure they...

How Bad Advice from Untrained Pastors’ Wives Made Abuse Worse

Sometimes it's women who hold other women in bondage. Last night I shared this Fixed It For You on my social media channels. It's a simple one, and it doesn't really need much explanation.  The author of the original quote, Rachel Jankovic, is Doug Wilson's daughter,...

Holy Tension: A Big Picture Look at the Evangelical Marriage Machine

How did gender hierarchy theology become so accepted by so many? I’m taking a month off of the blog to get some much needed downtime, and I thought that this was the perfect opportunity to highlight some amazing women writers that I’ve been interacting with on...
Are Obligation Sex and Marital Rape the Same Thing?

Are Obligation Sex and Marital Rape the Same Thing?

Is all obligation sex necessarily rape? As we’ve been talking about obligation sex this month, starting with 10 things you need to know about obligation sex, and how obligation sex affects a woman’s body, there’s a conversation that keeps coming up on social media:...

The Obligation Sex Series

  • 10 Things to Know about Obligation Sex
  • Why Obligation Sex Destroys Libido (and how it affects us long-term) (coming soon)
  • A Way Forward to Recovery from Obligation Sex (coming soon)
  • You Don’t Need to Consent to Being Used (coming soon)
  • When Your Husband Won’t Let go of Obligation Sex (coming soon)
  • The Obligation Sex podcast (coming soon)

Previous Posts on Obligation Sex

Previous Podcasts on Obligation Sex

Plus please see our Great Sex Rescue Toolkit for handy downloads about the effects of obligation sex that you can give to your pastor, counselor, small group leader–anyone who teaches it!

And see chapters 9 and 10 in The Great Sex Rescue for all our charts, stats, and commentary!

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The Funniest Fixed It for You!

The Funniest Fixed It for You!

Sometimes I laugh when making a Fixed It for You and I just can't stop. I mean, often my Fixed It for Yous are so awful that they make you angry and make you all riled up to change things all at once.  And sometimes they're so stupid (for lack of a better word) that...

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