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What Happens When We Get Gender Stereotypes Wrong?

What Happens When We Get Gender Stereotypes Wrong?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Dec 11, 2020 | Resolving Conflict

Yesterday we posted an important podcast about the idea that “men need respect and women need love”, and that these should be unconditional. It’s blown up on Twitter, and I’ve had so much feedback it’s hard to keep track. But a few things...
Start Your Engines Podcast: Do You Rush Through Foreplay?

Start Your Engines Podcast: Do You Rush Through Foreplay?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | May 28, 2020 | Podcasts

Let’s talk gender differences–and gender differences with foreplay! On the last Thursday of every month we like to do the podcast that’s aimed more specifically at men (though women will enjoy it, too!). And this week Keith and I tackled the problem...
Are Men from Mars and Women from Venus?

Are Men from Mars and Women from Venus?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | May 27, 2020 | Resolving Conflict

Are we overblowing gender differences? Are men from Mars and women from Venus? It’s Keith on the blog today for our men’s corner! It seems you can’t go to a marriage conference, or read a book on marriage or even have a conversation about relationships...
Can We Stop it with Gender Stereotypes Already?

Can We Stop it with Gender Stereotypes Already?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | May 2, 2019 | Life

Do gender stereotypes help or hurt? It’s time for a new episode of the Bare Marriage podcast! I hope you all will listen, but if you don’t have time, I’ll have some links and rabbit trails below so you can read all you want as well! And consider this...
Sex is the Gift of Being in the Moment. And that Is a Gift!

Sex is the Gift of Being in the Moment. And that Is a Gift!

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Feb 6, 2019 | Sex

I don’t live in the moment well–and that can make sex more difficult. I’m a woman, and like most women, I have a million things going on in my head at any one time: What’s for dinner tomorrow night (and did I remember to take something out of...
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Have you ever noticed that a lot of common Christian sex advice just sounds really icky?

Sex is supposed to be great. Like, really great. So great that it’s hard to keep your hands off each other great. 

So why do so many Christian marriage books present it as another chore to check off of a woman’s to-do list? 

Why do so many Christian sex books portray men as doomed to sexual deviancy? 

We’re on a mission to change the conversation about sex in evangelical spaces. And to do that, we started by scoring our current best-sellers based on a Healthy Sexuality Scorecard. 

Want to see how your favourite book scored? 

You can download the rubric and scorecard (including quotes that explain the score) here, for free!

Get the rubric and scorecard--for free!