How Do I tell My Husband I’ve Never Enjoyed Sex?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Sep 23, 2024 | Making Sex Feel Good

What do you do if you’ve never enjoyed sex–but you’ve been having it anyway? What if you’ve been married for years but sex has never felt great, but you’ve been “fulfilling his needs.” And now you’re getting tired of it...

When He Deliberately Ignores Your Pleasure: What to Do When Sex Has Become One-Sided

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Nov 9, 2022 | Making Sex Feel Good

Sex is supposed to be mutual and pleasurable for both. Your pleasure is supposed to matter. Unfortunately, though, we have a 47 point orgasm gap among evangelicals, meaning that 95% of men report almost always or always reaching orgasm during a sexual encounter,...

PODCAST: The ABCs of Arousal and the Sexual Response Cycle

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Feb 10, 2022 | Libido, Podcasts

Too many people don’t understand the sexual response cycle–so let’s spell it out and figure out why this lack of info has become so prevalent in evangelicalism! It’s time for a new podcast, and today’s podcast summarizes yesterday’s...

6: Do You Know the Stages of the Sexual Response Cycle?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Feb 9, 2022 | Libido

So…have you ever heard the term “sexual response cycle”? Basically what it means is that our bodies go through distinct stages during sexual arousal and response, leading up to orgasm and then resolving.  And many of us don’t understand what...

71: How Much Foreplay is Enough?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Feb 2, 2022 | Making Sex Feel Good

How do you know when you’ve done enough foreplay? We’re starting a new series on the blog right now, leading up to the release of the Good Guy’s Guide to Great Sex and the TOTALLY REVAMPED AND REWRITTEN Good Girl’s Guide to Great Sex on March...