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THE EMOTIONAL LABOR SERIES: How to Eliminate Nagging for Good

THE EMOTIONAL LABOR SERIES: How to Eliminate Nagging for Good

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jun 15, 2020 | Resolving Conflict

What if the reason that many women “nag”, or at least men feel “nagged”, is that women are carrying too much of the mental load? If only women know what tasks need to be done, then it’s almost inevitable that they will have to issue...
PODCAST: What if Your Husband’s Not on Board with Sharing Emotional Labor?

PODCAST: What if Your Husband’s Not on Board with Sharing Emotional Labor?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jun 11, 2020 | Podcasts

What if you want to redistribute the mental load and emotional labor in your household–but your husband’s not on board? We’ve been talking about emotional labor all month on the blog, and we’ve got a lot more coming! And today on the podcast we...
PODCAST: Pregnancy Etiquette and How Systems Can Reduce Stress in Marriage

PODCAST: Pregnancy Etiquette and How Systems Can Reduce Stress in Marriage

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jul 11, 2019 | Podcasts

It’s time for a new episode of the Bare Marriage podcast! I hope you all will listen, but if you don’t have time, I’ll have some links and rabbit trails below so you can read all you want as well! And consider this podcast “extras”. If...
What to Do When Mr. Clean Marries Mrs. Messy

What to Do When Mr. Clean Marries Mrs. Messy

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Apr 1, 2019 | Resolving Conflict

What do you do when you have different standards for housework? It’s Monday, the day that I usually try to tackle a reader question, and today I want to talk about what to do when you’re a little messy and he’s a neat freak. But before I get to that,...
How to Bring Playfulness Back to Your Marriage

How to Bring Playfulness Back to Your Marriage

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Mar 26, 2019 | Connecting

You start dating, and it’s magic. You put on music and do the silliest dance you can and she just thinks you’re the funniest guy in the whole world. She laces her fingers with yours and it sends butterflies straight to your stomach. You spend all your time...
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Have you ever noticed that a lot of common Christian sex advice just sounds really icky?

Sex is supposed to be great. Like, really great. So great that it’s hard to keep your hands off each other great. 

So why do so many Christian marriage books present it as another chore to check off of a woman’s to-do list? 

Why do so many Christian sex books portray men as doomed to sexual deviancy? 

We’re on a mission to change the conversation about sex in evangelical spaces. And to do that, we started by scoring our current best-sellers based on a Healthy Sexuality Scorecard. 

Want to see how your favourite book scored? 

You can download the rubric and scorecard (including quotes that explain the score) here, for free!

Get the rubric and scorecard--for free!