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PODCAST: Adult ADHD, Marriage, and Gender Roles!

PODCAST: Adult ADHD, Marriage, and Gender Roles!

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Mar 19, 2026 | Podcasts

Let’s talk ADHD and marriage! What does it mean to have realistic expectations of a spouse with ADHD? How does gender play into how ADHD impacts a relationship? And what do accommodations actually look like—versus what do they *not* look like in a healthy marriage? In...
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NEW RESEARCH: Women Aren’t Turned On by Husbands Who Act Like Dependents

NEW RESEARCH: Women Aren’t Turned On by Husbands Who Act Like Dependents

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Feb 12, 2024 | Libido, Research

What happens to women’s desire level if their husbands don’t do housework? This month, our series on the blog is going to focus on some new studies that have recently been published in peer reviewed journals. We like keeping up with research, and we shared four new...
PODCAST: Why Sex Is Like Chef Boyardee–And Other New Research Findings

PODCAST: Why Sex Is Like Chef Boyardee–And Other New Research Findings

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Feb 1, 2024 | Podcasts, Research

We’ve got four new peer-reviewed studies on marriage and sex for you today! We keep a folder of all kinds of new studies that come out that we find interesting, and I’ve been searching for a bunch lately as Keith and I are currently frantically writing our...
PODCAST: Barbie, South Korean Women, and the Evangelical Church

PODCAST: Barbie, South Korean Women, and the Evangelical Church

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Aug 24, 2023 | Podcasts

We finally saw the Barbie Movie! Keith and I, along with my mom and my son-in-law, went to see the Barbie movie last weekend! Rebecca and Connor saw it on opening night, but with vacations and sicknesses and other stuff Keith and I haven’t been able to see it...
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Have you ever noticed that a lot of common Christian sex advice just sounds really icky?

Sex is supposed to be great. Like, really great. So great that it’s hard to keep your hands off each other great. 

So why do so many Christian marriage books present it as another chore to check off of a woman’s to-do list? 

Why do so many Christian sex books portray men as doomed to sexual deviancy? 

We’re on a mission to change the conversation about sex in evangelical spaces. And to do that, we started by scoring our current best-sellers based on a Healthy Sexuality Scorecard. 

Want to see how your favourite book scored? 

You can download the rubric and scorecard (including quotes that explain the score) here, for free!

Get the rubric and scorecard--for free!