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What Happens When We Get Gender Stereotypes Wrong?

What Happens When We Get Gender Stereotypes Wrong?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Dec 11, 2020 | Resolving Conflict

Yesterday we posted an important podcast about the idea that “men need respect and women need love”, and that these should be unconditional. It’s blown up on Twitter, and I’ve had so much feedback it’s hard to keep track. But a few things...
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by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Dec 10, 2020 | Podcasts

Are wives called to unconditionally respect their husbands? Is unconditional respect a thing in marriage? This week’s podcast is a little bit explosive–sort of like last week’s on stumbling blocks and causing men to sin! We’re going to look at...
Can We Talk about Mutual Respect?

Can We Talk about Mutual Respect?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jan 31, 2020 | Resolving Conflict

If you’re reading this as it’s being published, Keith and I are getting on a cruise ship in Buenos Aires to head to Antarctica! But a lot of interesting things happened this week, and I wanted to chime in while I still have good wifi. The theme of all of...
Let’s Look at the Evidence: Do Marriages Work Best if Men Make the Decisions?

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by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jan 28, 2020 | Marriage

Wait! Did that tag line say Sheila’s HUSBAND is writing this post about making decisions in marriage?!? Yes, everyone, this is Keith writing my debut blog post for the website. Some of you may already know me from a few of the podcasts I have been in, but aside from...
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by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jan 17, 2020 | Faith

This has been a huge week on the blog as we end our year-long look at Love & Respect. And, as promised, today I want to share your comments and pass the torch to you all, so that you can continue the work. I was so encouraged by how many comments came in this...
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Have you ever noticed that a lot of common Christian sex advice just sounds really icky?

Sex is supposed to be great. Like, really great. So great that it’s hard to keep your hands off each other great. 

So why do so many Christian marriage books present it as another chore to check off of a woman’s to-do list? 

Why do so many Christian sex books portray men as doomed to sexual deviancy? 

We’re on a mission to change the conversation about sex in evangelical spaces. And to do that, we started by scoring our current best-sellers based on a Healthy Sexuality Scorecard. 

Want to see how your favourite book scored? 

You can download the rubric and scorecard (including quotes that explain the score) here, for free!

Get the rubric and scorecard--for free!