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How Can the Higher Drive Spouse Avoid Giving the Obligation Sex Message?

How Can the Higher Drive Spouse Avoid Giving the Obligation Sex Message?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Oct 30, 2023 | Libido

Being the higher drive spouse can be really frustrating. You want to connect with your spouse, and you want to have a passionate marriage, but it seems like your spouse doesn’t share those same desires. And that can feel like a rejection. This is the last post...
SEXUAL CONFIDENCE: 4 Tips for Building Sexual Confidence as the Higher Drive Wife

SEXUAL CONFIDENCE: 4 Tips for Building Sexual Confidence as the Higher Drive Wife

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Nov 1, 2021 | Libido

I’ve often said that the higher drive wife carries a lot of burdens that other permutations of libido do not. It can be very difficult to be a husband married to a woman who doesn’t want sex, but at least that’s culturally expected. As  a woman, we...
Communicating Your Perspective When Your Spouse Isn’t Interested in Sex

Communicating Your Perspective When Your Spouse Isn’t Interested in Sex

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jul 20, 2021 | Libido

What do you do if your spouse isn’t interested in sex? Often when I write about how to spice things up in the bedroom, or how to make sex more fun, the emails start to arrive: What do I do if my husband doesn’t want to have sex? What do I do if my wife...
Why Doesn’t My Husband Want to Make Love

Why Doesn’t My Husband Want to Make Love

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jul 19, 2021 | Libido

What do you do if your husband doesn’t want to make love? That’s such a lonely place to be in a marriage–but it’s far more common than we might normally think. When we were conducting the research for our book The Great Sex Rescue, we asked...
Why Believing All Men Are Sex Machines Leads to So Much Rejection among Women

Why Believing All Men Are Sex Machines Leads to So Much Rejection among Women

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jan 15, 2021 | Libido

If we believe that men are insatiable sex machines who will want and need sex everyday, what happens when we marry and wives find their husbands are just human? This week, on our Bare Marriage podcast, we talked with Rachel Joy Welcher about her book Talking Back to...
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Have you ever noticed that a lot of common Christian sex advice just sounds really icky?

Sex is supposed to be great. Like, really great. So great that it’s hard to keep your hands off each other great. 

So why do so many Christian marriage books present it as another chore to check off of a woman’s to-do list? 

Why do so many Christian sex books portray men as doomed to sexual deviancy? 

We’re on a mission to change the conversation about sex in evangelical spaces. And to do that, we started by scoring our current best-sellers based on a Healthy Sexuality Scorecard. 

Want to see how your favourite book scored? 

You can download the rubric and scorecard (including quotes that explain the score) here, for free!

Get the rubric and scorecard--for free!