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Do You Ever Feel Rejected When Your Husband Seems to Prefer Sleep to Sex?

Do You Ever Feel Rejected When Your Husband Seems to Prefer Sleep to Sex?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jan 13, 2021 | Libido

I wonder: since we’ve grown up believing so much that men want sex all the time, then when he doesn’t initiate sex, do women feel rejected? I’m not talking about the rejection that higher drive wives feel (that’s real, and that’s...
Start Your Engines Podcast: On Frequency, Libido–and Being Sex Starved

Start Your Engines Podcast: On Frequency, Libido–and Being Sex Starved

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Sep 24, 2020 | Podcasts

It’s time for our men’s podcast–and this week we’re continuing our conversation about libido differences and looking at frequency. Keith and I focused on high drive husbands and high drive wives–and questions to ask if you’re...
4 Reasons You May Feel Sexually Frustrated–Even When You’re Having Sex

4 Reasons You May Feel Sexually Frustrated–Even When You’re Having Sex

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Sep 21, 2020 | Libido

Do you feel really alone when your spouse rejects you sexually? We’re talking about libido all month on the blog, and I opened by talking about how to find contentment even if you’re the higher drive spouse and not getting as much sex as you...
8 Questions to Ask if Your Husband Doesn’t Want Sex

8 Questions to Ask if Your Husband Doesn’t Want Sex

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Sep 18, 2020 | Libido

What do you do if your husband rarely wants to make love? He can go forever without initiating, and you feel lonely and rejected? We’ve been talking this week about what constitutes a healthy frequency of sex in marriage, and what to do if sex is far less...
PODCAST: What if Libido Differences and Frequency Aren’t the Real Issues?

PODCAST: What if Libido Differences and Frequency Aren’t the Real Issues?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Sep 17, 2020 | Libido

We talk about frequency issues and libido issues in marriage as if they’re the problem to be solved. But what if they’re more symptoms of other problems? Every now and then we record a podcast that I think is truly important. I mean, I like them all, but...
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Have you ever noticed that a lot of common Christian sex advice just sounds really icky?

Sex is supposed to be great. Like, really great. So great that it’s hard to keep your hands off each other great. 

So why do so many Christian marriage books present it as another chore to check off of a woman’s to-do list? 

Why do so many Christian sex books portray men as doomed to sexual deviancy? 

We’re on a mission to change the conversation about sex in evangelical spaces. And to do that, we started by scoring our current best-sellers based on a Healthy Sexuality Scorecard. 

Want to see how your favourite book scored? 

You can download the rubric and scorecard (including quotes that explain the score) here, for free!

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