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How One Woman Had an Orgasm Breakthrough after 16 Years

How One Woman Had an Orgasm Breakthrough after 16 Years

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Feb 7, 2024 | Sex

Sheila here! As we’ve been talking this week about new research showing that for many women, sex is like ChefBoyardee ravioli out of a can, I thought I could give you some hope that women can experience Nonna’s ravioli too! I receieved this from a reader,...
Start Your Engines: Your Wife’s Not Broken!

Start Your Engines: Your Wife’s Not Broken!

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jul 30, 2020 | Podcasts

What happens when a couple gets married, and sex doesn’t work well for her? Well, I’ll tell you what often happens. The couple assumes that she doesn’t like sex. That she doesn’t enjoy sex. That she’s just not sexual. And she feels...
10 Quick Newlywed Sex Questions You Can’t Ask Your Pastor

10 Quick Newlywed Sex Questions You Can’t Ask Your Pastor

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jul 13, 2020 | Preparing for Marriage

Engaged women and newlyweds often have a lot of questions about sex! What will it feel like? Will it hurt? How do we make it feel good? This month, in the Mondays in July, we’re talking about sex questions you can’t ask your pastor (and in our podcasts,...
If Sex Feels Terrible…How Can You Look Forward to It?

If Sex Feels Terrible…How Can You Look Forward to It?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jul 10, 2020 | Sex

So sex feels terrible. You feel nothing–or maybe even some pain. So how do you look forward to it? That’s the question that one of our frequent commenters was asking this week, and I feel for her, because I’ve been in her situation. She’s a...
PODCAST Extras: Arousal–The Missing Piece

PODCAST Extras: Arousal–The Missing Piece

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | May 14, 2020 | Podcasts

When women can’t reach orgasm or don’t receive a lot of pleasure from sex, a lot of times it’s because they’ve never figured out the arousal piece. We’ve been talking on the blog lately about that arousal piece, and what can hinder it,...
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Have you ever noticed that a lot of common Christian sex advice just sounds really icky?

Sex is supposed to be great. Like, really great. So great that it’s hard to keep your hands off each other great. 

So why do so many Christian marriage books present it as another chore to check off of a woman’s to-do list? 

Why do so many Christian sex books portray men as doomed to sexual deviancy? 

We’re on a mission to change the conversation about sex in evangelical spaces. And to do that, we started by scoring our current best-sellers based on a Healthy Sexuality Scorecard. 

Want to see how your favourite book scored? 

You can download the rubric and scorecard (including quotes that explain the score) here, for free!

Get the rubric and scorecard--for free!