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Sex is the Gift of Being in the Moment. And that Is a Gift!

Sex is the Gift of Being in the Moment. And that Is a Gift!

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Feb 6, 2019 | Sex

I don’t live in the moment well–and that can make sex more difficult. I’m a woman, and like most women, I have a million things going on in my head at any one time: What’s for dinner tomorrow night (and did I remember to take something out of...
What Does Making Love Really Mean? The Beauty of Sexual Intimacy

What Does Making Love Really Mean? The Beauty of Sexual Intimacy

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Nov 21, 2018 | Sexual Intimacy

Making love and having sex are not the same thing. One is far more profound. One is a deep love, a deep knowing. The other is simply about the physical act. This month on Wednesdays we’re talking about different aspects of intimacy. I started by talking about...
Reader Question: My Wife Says We Never Make Love

Reader Question: My Wife Says We Never Make Love

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Nov 12, 2018 | Sex, Sexual Intimacy

What does it mean if your wife says you never make love? Every Monday I like to film an “Ask Sheila” video, and today’s is a sad one from a husband whose wife doesn’t want sex–and who feels that they are drifting apart. He writes: Reader...
What a Harvard Study Tells Us About the Only Real Way to Find Happiness

What a Harvard Study Tells Us About the Only Real Way to Find Happiness

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Nov 7, 2018 | Life

“If you were to invest now in your future best self, where would you put your time and your energy?” That’s the question Robert Wadlinger asks in this awesome TED Talk about happiness. In my quest to THINK more and VEG less, I’ve been trying to...
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Have you ever noticed that a lot of common Christian sex advice just sounds really icky?

Sex is supposed to be great. Like, really great. So great that it’s hard to keep your hands off each other great. 

So why do so many Christian marriage books present it as another chore to check off of a woman’s to-do list? 

Why do so many Christian sex books portray men as doomed to sexual deviancy? 

We’re on a mission to change the conversation about sex in evangelical spaces. And to do that, we started by scoring our current best-sellers based on a Healthy Sexuality Scorecard. 

Want to see how your favourite book scored? 

You can download the rubric and scorecard (including quotes that explain the score) here, for free!

Get the rubric and scorecard--for free!