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Why You Need to Work on Your Own Sexual Stuff

Why You Need to Work on Your Own Sexual Stuff

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Dec 5, 2022 | Sexual Intimacy

When we’re trying to get out of the pit our sex life is in–sometimes we’re the one who needs to grab the ladder. We’re near the end of our series on getting our sex life out of the pit that one–or both–of us have dug for ourselves....
How Do We Make Sure These Two Horrific News Articles Stop Happening?

How Do We Make Sure These Two Horrific News Articles Stop Happening?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | May 2, 2022 | Abuse

I read two terrible news articles over the weekend that had me grieving and got me all riled up. News article #1: A woman reports her rape to her Christian college, and is then is banned from campus for having pre-marital sex. NBC News explains what happened: When...
Out of a Bill Gothard Cult, and Finding Jesus: Podcast with Emily Elizabeth Anderson

Out of a Bill Gothard Cult, and Finding Jesus: Podcast with Emily Elizabeth Anderson

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Apr 7, 2022 | Podcasts

Movie Reviews for Redeeming Love: What You Need to Know

Movie Reviews for Redeeming Love: What You Need to Know

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jan 24, 2022 | Abuse

Everyday for the last month I’ve received multiple social media messages asking me to write a review of the Redeeming Love movie. Redeeming Love was originally a novel written by Francine Rivers in 1991, and it quickly became one of the best-selling Christian...
The Sexual Abuse Questions Podcast: Pointing to Recovery

The Sexual Abuse Questions Podcast: Pointing to Recovery

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Oct 1, 2020 | Podcasts

Sexual abuse is one of the most damaging and traumatic things a person can go through. Warning: This podcast and post may be disturbing to people with sex abuse in their past, but we didn’t go into great detail about anything specific . God designed sex to be an...
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Have you ever noticed that a lot of common Christian sex advice just sounds really icky?

Sex is supposed to be great. Like, really great. So great that it’s hard to keep your hands off each other great. 

So why do so many Christian marriage books present it as another chore to check off of a woman’s to-do list? 

Why do so many Christian sex books portray men as doomed to sexual deviancy? 

We’re on a mission to change the conversation about sex in evangelical spaces. And to do that, we started by scoring our current best-sellers based on a Healthy Sexuality Scorecard. 

Want to see how your favourite book scored? 

You can download the rubric and scorecard (including quotes that explain the score) here, for free!

Get the rubric and scorecard--for free!