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This is How We Change the Church–Because We All Deserve Better

This is How We Change the Church–Because We All Deserve Better

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Apr 18, 2023 | Parenting Teens

Come celebrate with me! Because today She Deserves Better launches! After two very long years, She Deserves Better is here! And it’s selling so well (thank you all so much!), and we’re all so, so excited to see how this will actually change the...
Our Daughters Deserve the Full Gospel

Our Daughters Deserve the Full Gospel

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Apr 17, 2023 | Parenting Teens, Theology of Marriage and Sex

Have we been selling our daughters an incomplete gospel? Let’s do a thought experiment for a minute. Imagine everything you’ve been told the gospel is–about how Jesus saves, and what that means. Now imagine that you’re actually Jesus (if that...
PODCAST: On Nice Guy Syndrome, and Boundaries!

PODCAST: On Nice Guy Syndrome, and Boundaries!

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Apr 13, 2023 | Podcasts

Have you ever heard the J.O.Y acronym? It’s supposed to sum up our attitude towards how we live our lives, and it stands for: Jesus first Others second You last This is very much what we’re taught in church–that we come last. Yet Jesus said that...
What I’m Not Supposed to Say: I’m Angry

What I’m Not Supposed to Say: I’m Angry

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Apr 12, 2023 | Parenting Teens, Theology of Marriage and Sex

I’m supposed to be at the zoo today. My cousin and her daughter are visiting from out of town, and I cleared the calendar today so that I would be free to go the zoo. Rebecca and Connor and the kids and Keith were all available, and it was going to be a big...
Does Higher Sex Drive Lead to Rape? Pushback as a Learning Tool

Does Higher Sex Drive Lead to Rape? Pushback as a Learning Tool

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Apr 10, 2023 | Parenting Teens

We had an amazing Theology in the Raw podcast with Preston Sprinkle. It dropped on Thursday, but I’d like to tell you about it, because we’ve never had this opportunity before to answer (friendly!) pushback about our views on modesty and consent. We were...
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Have you ever noticed that a lot of common Christian sex advice just sounds really icky?

Sex is supposed to be great. Like, really great. So great that it’s hard to keep your hands off each other great. 

So why do so many Christian marriage books present it as another chore to check off of a woman’s to-do list? 

Why do so many Christian sex books portray men as doomed to sexual deviancy? 

We’re on a mission to change the conversation about sex in evangelical spaces. And to do that, we started by scoring our current best-sellers based on a Healthy Sexuality Scorecard. 

Want to see how your favourite book scored? 

You can download the rubric and scorecard (including quotes that explain the score) here, for free!

Get the rubric and scorecard--for free!