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You Don’t Need to Gaslight Yourself About Your Marriage

You Don’t Need to Gaslight Yourself About Your Marriage

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Aug 16, 2023 | Theology of Marriage and Sex

The Quest for a “Biblical Marriage”

The Quest for a “Biblical Marriage”

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Aug 14, 2023 | Theology of Marriage and Sex

What does it look like to have a “biblical” marriage?  We toss that phrase around a lot–”biblical marriage.” It’s become a really loaded term. But often it’s assumed that a “biblical marriage” is just obvious. Everyone knows what it is. But do they? I’m back from an...
What if the Church is Grooming Women for Objectification? Introducing Laura Robinson

What if the Church is Grooming Women for Objectification? Introducing Laura Robinson

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jul 25, 2023 | Theology of Marriage and Sex

Does the church prime women to accept objectification? This summer, as I’m taking a month off from blogging, I wanted to take the opportunity to introduce you to some amazing women that I’ve found via Twitter, who have some super insightful things to say. Chief among...
What’s the Difference Between Authority and Leadership in Marriage?

What’s the Difference Between Authority and Leadership in Marriage?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jun 30, 2023 | Theology of Marriage and Sex

Can you be a leader without being in authority? That’s an interesting question–and it’s one that’s popped up a lot in the comments section on the blog this week! I’d like to give some definitions and some broad discussions of this, and then just post some comments...
PODCASt: 4 Ways Complementarian Marriages Can Go Wrong (Danvers Statement)

PODCASt: 4 Ways Complementarian Marriages Can Go Wrong (Danvers Statement)

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jun 29, 2023 | Podcasts, Theology of Marriage and Sex

Let’s talk about how complementarians think marriage can go wrong! This month on the blog Keith’s been writing up a series on the Danvers Statement, the codified statement of complementarianism that launched the Council for Biblical Manhood and Womanhood,...
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Have you ever noticed that a lot of common Christian sex advice just sounds really icky?

Sex is supposed to be great. Like, really great. So great that it’s hard to keep your hands off each other great. 

So why do so many Christian marriage books present it as another chore to check off of a woman’s to-do list? 

Why do so many Christian sex books portray men as doomed to sexual deviancy? 

We’re on a mission to change the conversation about sex in evangelical spaces. And to do that, we started by scoring our current best-sellers based on a Healthy Sexuality Scorecard. 

Want to see how your favourite book scored? 

You can download the rubric and scorecard (including quotes that explain the score) here, for free!

Get the rubric and scorecard--for free!