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The Rose Colored Glasses Effect in Marriage

The Rose Colored Glasses Effect in Marriage

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Oct 4, 2023 | Connecting, Research

Why Complementarian / Egalitarian Labels Matter: A Response to Nancy Pearcey

Why Complementarian / Egalitarian Labels Matter: A Response to Nancy Pearcey

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Sep 15, 2023 | Theology of Marriage and Sex

Do complementarian men make the best husbands? Last June and July I was really burned out. I had been engaging in a Twitter back and forth with Nancy Pearcey, the author of the new book The Toxic War on Masculinity. Her thesis is a simple one:  “The happiest of...
PODCAST: Do Complementarian Men Make the Best Husbands? A Response to Nancy Pearcey

PODCAST: Do Complementarian Men Make the Best Husbands? A Response to Nancy Pearcey

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Sep 14, 2023 | Podcasts, Research

Do complementarian men do best? That’s what Nancy Pearcey says in her new book The Toxic War on Masculinity! Men who believe that marriage is a hierarchy and that men should get the final decisions (complementarians) do best.  This is the podcast (and the op ed)...
The Warning from South Korean Women to the Conservative Evangelical Church

The Warning from South Korean Women to the Conservative Evangelical Church

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Aug 30, 2023 | Marriage

South Korean women are reacting against sexism. Last week on the podcast, we highlighted how the culture in South Korea has been changing as women are being empowered in larger society. No longer are South Korean women left to rely on marriage and men to ensure they...
PODCAST: You Don’t Need to Gaslight Yourself About Your Marriage

PODCAST: You Don’t Need to Gaslight Yourself About Your Marriage

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Aug 16, 2023 | Podcasts

What does a biblical marriage look like? We’re back for another season of the Bare Marriage podcast! And this year we want to look at what it means to live out the Jesus Way of marriage–how it’s about letting go of the chain-of-command mode of...
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Have you ever noticed that a lot of common Christian sex advice just sounds really icky?

Sex is supposed to be great. Like, really great. So great that it’s hard to keep your hands off each other great. 

So why do so many Christian marriage books present it as another chore to check off of a woman’s to-do list? 

Why do so many Christian sex books portray men as doomed to sexual deviancy? 

We’re on a mission to change the conversation about sex in evangelical spaces. And to do that, we started by scoring our current best-sellers based on a Healthy Sexuality Scorecard. 

Want to see how your favourite book scored? 

You can download the rubric and scorecard (including quotes that explain the score) here, for free!

Get the rubric and scorecard--for free!