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The Evangelical Sex Report Card

The Evangelical Sex Report Card

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Oct 2, 2024 | Sex

PODCAST: Why Evangelical Honeymoons Go So Badly feat. Jay Stringer

PODCAST: Why Evangelical Honeymoons Go So Badly feat. Jay Stringer

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Mar 28, 2024 | Podcasts, Preparing for Marriage

Is the honeymoon all about the guy FINALLY getting sex? Nope. But too often evangelicals talk like this–and it has grave consequences. Licensed counselor Jay Stringer sent me a video a few weeks ago that he was really concerned about. SBC Megachurch pastor Josh...
Does Sex Hurt the First Time?

Does Sex Hurt the First Time?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Mar 18, 2024 | Making Sex Feel Good, Preparing for Marriage

Is sex really painful the first time? That’s one of the most common questions I get asked from engaged women waiting for the wedding night. How much is going to hurt? What should I expect? This month I’m going to look at some “myths” that we often have around sex....
The Uncomfortable Truth about Waiting until You’re Married for Sex

The Uncomfortable Truth about Waiting until You’re Married for Sex

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Mar 9, 2022 | Sex

Growing up, we hear, over and over again: “Just wait for the wedding night! The wedding night will the most magical night of your life!” We get that message from our youth groups; from movies; from bridal magazines. The honeymoon is the pinnacle of your...
3 Stories Podcast: A Vaginismus Story; A Christmas Story; and My Story

3 Stories Podcast: A Vaginismus Story; A Christmas Story; and My Story

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Dec 16, 2021 | Podcasts

It’s the last Bare Marriage podcast of 2021! And thank you for joining us this year! Today on the podcast we hear Rachel Perry’s story of vaginismus, and then I get cozy in my yellow chair where I work and just tell you how I see the Christmas story...
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Have you ever noticed that a lot of common Christian sex advice just sounds really icky?

Sex is supposed to be great. Like, really great. So great that it’s hard to keep your hands off each other great. 

So why do so many Christian marriage books present it as another chore to check off of a woman’s to-do list? 

Why do so many Christian sex books portray men as doomed to sexual deviancy? 

We’re on a mission to change the conversation about sex in evangelical spaces. And to do that, we started by scoring our current best-sellers based on a Healthy Sexuality Scorecard. 

Want to see how your favourite book scored? 

You can download the rubric and scorecard (including quotes that explain the score) here, for free!

Get the rubric and scorecard--for free!