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PODCAST: Why the Billy Graham Rule Hurts Men Too

PODCAST: Why the Billy Graham Rule Hurts Men Too

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | May 14, 2026 | Podcasts

The Billy Graham Rule sexualizes everyone–and isn’t biblical. There’s nothing in the Bible that says that we can’t have healthy relationships with our brothers and sisters in Christ, and much that says the opposite. But the evangelical church...
PODCAST: For Men Only by Shaunti and Jeff Feldhahn Talk Lust and Sex!

PODCAST: For Men Only by Shaunti and Jeff Feldhahn Talk Lust and Sex!

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | May 7, 2026 | Libido, Podcasts

This time we’re looking at lust & sex in For Men Only! It’s Part 2 of our deep dive into the book For Men Only by Jeff and Shaunti Feldhahn, and we saved the sex & lust & libido stuff to this podcast, because Rebecca had a lot to say. If you...
PODCAST: The Problems with For Men Only by Jeff and Shaunti Feldhahn

PODCAST: The Problems with For Men Only by Jeff and Shaunti Feldhahn

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Apr 30, 2026 | Men's Corner, Podcasts

For Men Only presents such a sad view of marriage! Written by Shaunti Feldhahn and her husband Jeff, it’s a companion book for her best-seller For Women Only, that we’ve talked about before.  This is a conversation that Rebecca has been wanting to have...
Women Have Agency: You Don’t Have to Obey Churches or Husbands Who Want to Control You

Women Have Agency: You Don’t Have to Obey Churches or Husbands Who Want to Control You

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Apr 29, 2026 | Abuse, Faith

Yesterday I had a message from a woman being summoned in to defend herself to a toxic elders’ board. She had been going to a very hierarchical, controlling church and had realized it wasn’t healthy and had decided to take her family and go elsewhere. The...
PODCAST: Who Bears the Mental Load for Sex?

PODCAST: Who Bears the Mental Load for Sex?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Apr 16, 2026 | Libido, Podcasts

Women have a harder time enjoying sex–so why is the mental load left to her? Today on the podcast we play a bunch of clips of different pastors/speakers that show all the different ways that the mental load & emotional labour for sex are so often placed on...
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Have you ever noticed that a lot of common Christian sex advice just sounds really icky?

Sex is supposed to be great. Like, really great. So great that it’s hard to keep your hands off each other great. 

So why do so many Christian marriage books present it as another chore to check off of a woman’s to-do list? 

Why do so many Christian sex books portray men as doomed to sexual deviancy? 

We’re on a mission to change the conversation about sex in evangelical spaces. And to do that, we started by scoring our current best-sellers based on a Healthy Sexuality Scorecard. 

Want to see how your favourite book scored? 

You can download the rubric and scorecard (including quotes that explain the score) here, for free!

Get the rubric and scorecard--for free!