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PODCAST: Are Romance Novels for Women the Same as Porn for Men?

PODCAST: Are Romance Novels for Women the Same as Porn for Men?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Mar 27, 2025 | Podcasts, Pornography

Is it fair to compare romance novels to porn? Quite often in comment sections in our posts about porn, or even in pastor’s sermons or various websites for single women, the topic of romance novels = porn will be raised. Men will often say, “sure, you call...
PODCAST: Becoming the Pastor’s Wife feat Beth Allison Barr

PODCAST: Becoming the Pastor’s Wife feat Beth Allison Barr

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Mar 20, 2025 | Podcasts, Theology of Marriage and Sex

What if marriage has become the main path to ministry for women? Or really, the main option for women? (Thank you, Brazos Press, for sponsoring this episode of the Bare Marriage podcast! Our sponsors make what we do possible, and we are so excited to be able to...
PODCAST: What Kind of Marriage Do You Actually Want?

PODCAST: What Kind of Marriage Do You Actually Want?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Mar 13, 2025 | Podcasts

What if you could have the marriage you actually want? Our new book the Marriage You Want launched officially this week–and it’s been #1 in top new releases in Christian marriage all week!  Thank you so much! Today Keith and I want to share our heart for...
PODCAST: Does Traditional “Christian” Marriage Lead to More Immaturity? Let’s See the Data!

PODCAST: Does Traditional “Christian” Marriage Lead to More Immaturity? Let’s See the Data!

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Mar 6, 2025 | Connecting, Podcasts

What does immaturity have to do with complementarianism? We had a hard time trying to figure out what to call this episode, because we didn’t want to be TOO controversial–but at the same time, the findings were super interesting. When we looked at the data...
PODCAST: Is Caling Acts of Service a Love Language Missing Something HUGE? New Bonus Stats!

PODCAST: Is Caling Acts of Service a Love Language Missing Something HUGE? New Bonus Stats!

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Feb 27, 2025 | Connecting, Podcasts

Is it a “love language” to do basic chores? When we wrote The Great Sex Rescue, one of the things that really bothered us was that evangelical marriage authors talked a ton about increasing the frequency of sex without ever mentioning the orgasm gap or...
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Have you ever noticed that a lot of common Christian sex advice just sounds really icky?

Sex is supposed to be great. Like, really great. So great that it’s hard to keep your hands off each other great. 

So why do so many Christian marriage books present it as another chore to check off of a woman’s to-do list? 

Why do so many Christian sex books portray men as doomed to sexual deviancy? 

We’re on a mission to change the conversation about sex in evangelical spaces. And to do that, we started by scoring our current best-sellers based on a Healthy Sexuality Scorecard. 

Want to see how your favourite book scored? 

You can download the rubric and scorecard (including quotes that explain the score) here, for free!

Get the rubric and scorecard--for free!