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Submission Series: What Does It Mean to Obey Like Sarah?

Submission Series: What Does It Mean to Obey Like Sarah?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Aug 20, 2025 | Series, Theology of Marriage and Sex

It’s time to revisit submission and Sarah! Way back in 2018, even before we wrote The Great Sex Rescue, I wrote a big series on submission. I haven’t revisited it much since then because I had already written the series! But this week I’ve found...
PODCAST: What is Headship in Ephesians 5 and 1 Corinthians 11? Feat. Marg Mowczko

PODCAST: What is Headship in Ephesians 5 and 1 Corinthians 11? Feat. Marg Mowczko

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jun 12, 2025 | Podcasts, Theology of Marriage and Sex

What is “headship”? The headship doctrine says that because man is the head of the wife, then God made men to be in authority over women in marriage, and often in church too. But this assumes that the Greek word for head actually means authority. What if...
Are the WRONG People Getting the RIGHT Marriage Advice?

Are the WRONG People Getting the RIGHT Marriage Advice?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Mar 3, 2025 | Connecting, Theology of Marriage and Sex

I’ve spent years trying to untangle the Christian marriage advice puzzle. When we started researching the best-selling marriage books when we were writing The Great Sex Rescue, we found, to our dismay, that the majority of them ended up giving really bad advice, that...
Why Are Men Scared to Submit? Super Quick Rundown on Ephesians 5

Why Are Men Scared to Submit? Super Quick Rundown on Ephesians 5

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Feb 24, 2025 | Theology of Marriage and Sex

Ephesians 5 calls husbands to submit too. But whenever we talk about men submitting, so many men take offense to that! I wrote up this super quick overview of Ephesians 5 on social media last week, and it went so big that I thought I’d post it here, too, so...
Why Queen Vashti Should Be Considered a Hero

Why Queen Vashti Should Be Considered a Hero

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Dec 11, 2024 | Faith, Theology of Marriage and Sex

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Have you ever noticed that a lot of common Christian sex advice just sounds really icky?

Sex is supposed to be great. Like, really great. So great that it’s hard to keep your hands off each other great. 

So why do so many Christian marriage books present it as another chore to check off of a woman’s to-do list? 

Why do so many Christian sex books portray men as doomed to sexual deviancy? 

We’re on a mission to change the conversation about sex in evangelical spaces. And to do that, we started by scoring our current best-sellers based on a Healthy Sexuality Scorecard. 

Want to see how your favourite book scored? 

You can download the rubric and scorecard (including quotes that explain the score) here, for free!

Get the rubric and scorecard--for free!