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PODCAST: Hurt and Healed by the Church feat. Ryan George

PODCAST: Hurt and Healed by the Church feat. Ryan George

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jul 11, 2024 | Podcasts

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by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jul 10, 2024 | Abuse

A few months ago, I went viral on Twitter when I shared that atrocious clip of Josh Howerton telling women to “do what he tells you to do” on “his” wedding night. Many of Howerton’s supporters, and Howerton himself, said it was...
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by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jul 4, 2024 | Podcasts

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by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jun 26, 2024 | Faith, Series

Deconstruction is a key term in evangelicalism that nobody knew 10 years ago. It’s a growing movement, and it’s largely misunderstood. I’m dedicating four podcasts to deconstruction, starting tomorrow. We’ll begin with Sarah McCammon talking about her book...
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by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Apr 24, 2024 | Faith

Sometimes finding a life-giving church means investing in building one. When our girls were tiny we lived in downtown Toronto, and attended an amazing Anglican church that was made up mostly of people who weren’t Anglicans. It was in a historic church building, with...
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Have you ever noticed that a lot of common Christian sex advice just sounds really icky?

Sex is supposed to be great. Like, really great. So great that it’s hard to keep your hands off each other great. 

So why do so many Christian marriage books present it as another chore to check off of a woman’s to-do list? 

Why do so many Christian sex books portray men as doomed to sexual deviancy? 

We’re on a mission to change the conversation about sex in evangelical spaces. And to do that, we started by scoring our current best-sellers based on a Healthy Sexuality Scorecard. 

Want to see how your favourite book scored? 

You can download the rubric and scorecard (including quotes that explain the score) here, for free!

Get the rubric and scorecard--for free!