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Submission Series: What Does It Mean to Obey Like Sarah?

Submission Series: What Does It Mean to Obey Like Sarah?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Aug 20, 2025 | Series, Theology of Marriage and Sex

It’s time to revisit submission and Sarah! Way back in 2018, even before we wrote The Great Sex Rescue, I wrote a big series on submission. I haven’t revisited it much since then because I had already written the series! But this week I’ve found...
PODCAST: What Does Authoritarianism and Complementarianism Have in Common? (with a Quiz!)

PODCAST: What Does Authoritarianism and Complementarianism Have in Common? (with a Quiz!)

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Aug 7, 2025 | Podcasts

What if complementarianism is authoritarianism in disguise? One of the questions that haunts us here at Bare Marriage, that we’re always trying to understand and strategize about, is how do we reach people who are still knee-deep in toxic teachings in their...
How One Failed at Being the Perfect Complementarian Wife

How One Failed at Being the Perfect Complementarian Wife

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Dec 9, 2024 | Theology of Marriage and Sex

She wanted to follow God and be a good complementarian wife. But after a few years it all fell apart! Before I jump into our story, a few definitions. Complementarianism is the belief that God created men to be in authority over women, in the church and the home (some...
The Question That Haunts Me 35 Years Later

The Question That Haunts Me 35 Years Later

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Feb 23, 2024 | Faith, Theology of Marriage and Sex

PODCAST: Do Complementarian Men Make the Best Husbands? A Response to Nancy Pearcey

PODCAST: Do Complementarian Men Make the Best Husbands? A Response to Nancy Pearcey

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Sep 14, 2023 | Podcasts, Research

Do complementarian men do best? That’s what Nancy Pearcey says in her new book The Toxic War on Masculinity! Men who believe that marriage is a hierarchy and that men should get the final decisions (complementarians) do best.  This is the podcast (and the op ed)...
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Have you ever noticed that a lot of common Christian sex advice just sounds really icky?

Sex is supposed to be great. Like, really great. So great that it’s hard to keep your hands off each other great. 

So why do so many Christian marriage books present it as another chore to check off of a woman’s to-do list? 

Why do so many Christian sex books portray men as doomed to sexual deviancy? 

We’re on a mission to change the conversation about sex in evangelical spaces. And to do that, we started by scoring our current best-sellers based on a Healthy Sexuality Scorecard. 

Want to see how your favourite book scored? 

You can download the rubric and scorecard (including quotes that explain the score) here, for free!

Get the rubric and scorecard--for free!