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I Am Not Just a Christian Wife. I Am a Christian.

I Am Not Just a Christian Wife. I Am a Christian.

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Feb 1, 2023 | Theology of Marriage and Sex

A large part of the Christian church’s teaching on women is seriously slanted. I see it all the time: I’ll write a thoughtful, long post on how a woman should deal with sin in her family, and a commenter will say nothing except to quote 1 Peter 3:1-6 on...
PODCAST: Does God Hate Divorce? Plus the Women Carved in Ebony

PODCAST: Does God Hate Divorce? Plus the Women Carved in Ebony

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Dec 8, 2022 | Podcasts

God cares about people that the church has often forgotten. Today’s podcast contains two different interviews that I’m personally passionate about, and I wanted you to hear. I came across both of these people on social media, was immediately intrigued, and...
The Amazing Step-Parents We Only Have Because of Divorce

The Amazing Step-Parents We Only Have Because of Divorce

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Oct 21, 2022 | Abuse

When churches and denominations deny people the chance to divorce for abuse, they also deny kids the chance to grow up with amazing step-parents. I think we forget that. Those who argue so vehemently that abuse isn’t a valid reason for divorce (as Focus on the...
Is your Church or Denomination Safe for Abuse Victims? 20 Denominations That Aren’t

Is your Church or Denomination Safe for Abuse Victims? 20 Denominations That Aren’t

by Gretchen Baskerville | Oct 19, 2022 | Abuse

Sheila here! One of the things I love about being online is the friends that I meet who are passionate about similar things and doing work adjacent to me.  And one of my favourites is Gretchen Baskerville, author of The Life Saving Divorce. She’s done great work...
Why Holding Up Stories of Radical Healing and Forgiveness in Marriage May Backfire

Why Holding Up Stories of Radical Healing and Forgiveness in Marriage May Backfire

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Sep 21, 2022 | Theology of Marriage and Sex

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Have you ever noticed that a lot of common Christian sex advice just sounds really icky?

Sex is supposed to be great. Like, really great. So great that it’s hard to keep your hands off each other great. 

So why do so many Christian marriage books present it as another chore to check off of a woman’s to-do list? 

Why do so many Christian sex books portray men as doomed to sexual deviancy? 

We’re on a mission to change the conversation about sex in evangelical spaces. And to do that, we started by scoring our current best-sellers based on a Healthy Sexuality Scorecard. 

Want to see how your favourite book scored? 

You can download the rubric and scorecard (including quotes that explain the score) here, for free!

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