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PODCAST: How Christian Marriage Books Set up For Failure, with Natalie Hoffman

PODCAST: How Christian Marriage Books Set up For Failure, with Natalie Hoffman

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Sep 15, 2022 | Abuse, Podcasts

What if Christian marriage books are telling you that your destructive marriage is normal?  We’re in the middle of Marriage Misdiagnosis month, where we’re looking at how some of the messages given in evangelical marriage books actually talk about marriage...
Why We’re Going to See a Divorce Surge in the Church–and More!

Why We’re Going to See a Divorce Surge in the Church–and More!

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jan 7, 2022 | Abuse

When it comes to marriage and the church, I believe the ground is shifting beneath our feet right now. As I’v been sharing all week as we look back on 2021, things are changing quickly. God is shaking things, and people are starting to understand God’s...
PODCAST: What Are Christian Resources NOT Telling You About Abuse?

PODCAST: What Are Christian Resources NOT Telling You About Abuse?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Oct 21, 2021 | Abuse

October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month–and today I thought we’d take a look at what too many Christian resources are NOT telling us about abuse. It’s another edition of the Bare Marriage podcast, and I wanted to make sure that we had at least...
What Women Believe about Stay-At-Home Dads–Despite What the Church Teaches

What Women Believe about Stay-At-Home Dads–Despite What the Church Teaches

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jul 12, 2021 | Theology of Marriage and Sex

On the whole, women who attend church tend to believe, or are even more likely to believe, several key evangelical teachings about sex. It makes sense. If you invest in your church culture, your beliefs tend to line up with the church culture. And as we found in The...
Compassion for Anna Duggar–And How We Judge Success in Marriage

Compassion for Anna Duggar–And How We Judge Success in Marriage

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Apr 30, 2021 | Theology of Marriage and Sex

Josh Duggar has been arrested by the feds, and I’m so sad for Anna Duggar. I wasn’t going to write about this today, but it actually intersects with a number of things I’ve been thinking about this week, and I thought I could put them all in one...
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Have you ever noticed that a lot of common Christian sex advice just sounds really icky?

Sex is supposed to be great. Like, really great. So great that it’s hard to keep your hands off each other great. 

So why do so many Christian marriage books present it as another chore to check off of a woman’s to-do list? 

Why do so many Christian sex books portray men as doomed to sexual deviancy? 

We’re on a mission to change the conversation about sex in evangelical spaces. And to do that, we started by scoring our current best-sellers based on a Healthy Sexuality Scorecard. 

Want to see how your favourite book scored? 

You can download the rubric and scorecard (including quotes that explain the score) here, for free!

Get the rubric and scorecard--for free!