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What Do Complementarianism and Coercive Control Have in Common?

What Do Complementarianism and Coercive Control Have in Common?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Aug 19, 2024 | Abuse, Theology of Marriage and Sex

Does abuse show up more in complementarian circles? If you missed episode 246 of the Bare Marriage podcast, you missed out on a great one (and I highly recommend going back to listen when you have a chance!). I had the privilege of sitting down with Bethany Jantzi....
PODCAST: When Evangelical Marriage Advice Mimics Coercive Control

PODCAST: When Evangelical Marriage Advice Mimics Coercive Control

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Aug 15, 2024 | Abuse, Podcasts

What if evangelical marriage advice actually mimics coercive control? A few months ago I was emailed by Bethany Jantzi when I started talking about The Excellent Wife online. She had just done her dissertation on how The Excellent Wife actually has the same advice and...
PODCAST: The Problems with The Excellent Wife by Martha Peace

PODCAST: The Problems with The Excellent Wife by Martha Peace

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Aug 8, 2024 | Abuse, Podcasts

There are few books as harmful to women as The Excellent Wife by Martha Peace The Excellent Wife by Martha Peace sells like hotcakes in biblical counseling/ fundamentalist/ homeschooling circles, and even though it seems like a “fringe” book, it’s affecting tens of...
Problems with The Excellent Wife by Martha Peace: A Review

Problems with The Excellent Wife by Martha Peace: A Review

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Aug 7, 2024 | Abuse, Theology of Marriage and Sex

ONE OF THE THINGS WE’RE PASSIONATE ABOUT ON THIS BLOG IS MAKING SURE THE SELF-HELP AND RELATIONSHIP ADVICE IN THE EVANGELICAL WORLD IS HEALTHY. Over the last few years, our team has surveyed over 32,000 people, measuring how certain teachings common in the evangelical...
PODCAST: The Well-Trained Wife with Tia Levings

PODCAST: The Well-Trained Wife with Tia Levings

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Aug 1, 2024 | Abuse, Podcasts

What happens to your marriage when you get dragged into fundamentalism? Tia Levings went to a flagship SBC church. She wasn’t supposed to get sucked into fundamentalism. But Tia ended up being stuck in an abusive marriage, trying to fix things by following advice from...
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Have you ever noticed that a lot of common Christian sex advice just sounds really icky?

Sex is supposed to be great. Like, really great. So great that it’s hard to keep your hands off each other great. 

So why do so many Christian marriage books present it as another chore to check off of a woman’s to-do list? 

Why do so many Christian sex books portray men as doomed to sexual deviancy? 

We’re on a mission to change the conversation about sex in evangelical spaces. And to do that, we started by scoring our current best-sellers based on a Healthy Sexuality Scorecard. 

Want to see how your favourite book scored? 

You can download the rubric and scorecard (including quotes that explain the score) here, for free!

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