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Are We Caring for Our Marriage or Just Craving the Benefits?

Are We Caring for Our Marriage or Just Craving the Benefits?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Sep 23, 2020 | Marriage

Entitlement can kill a marriage. We’ve been looking at libido differences in the month of September, and if I had to sum up what I’m trying to say, it would just be: “Be a decent person and care for your spouse.” I encouraged low libido spouses...
Are You a Generous Lover? How Wives Can Be Giving in the Bedroom

Are You a Generous Lover? How Wives Can Be Giving in the Bedroom

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Mar 20, 2019 | Sex

What does it mean to be a generous lover? A few years after we were married a read a magazine article by a woman who had vowed at their wedding day to never say no to her husband sexually. Whenever he wanted sex, she would give it. I was just coming out of a bad few...
How Do We Leave a Legacy if We Never Have Kids?

How Do We Leave a Legacy if We Never Have Kids?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jan 11, 2018 | Family

Does our legacy have to revolve around our children? We’ve been talking about purpose and clarifying our priorities on the blog this week, and it got me thinking about legacy. What kind of legacy do you want to leave? Usually when we hear that question, we think...

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Have you ever noticed that a lot of common Christian sex advice just sounds really icky?

Sex is supposed to be great. Like, really great. So great that it’s hard to keep your hands off each other great. 

So why do so many Christian marriage books present it as another chore to check off of a woman’s to-do list? 

Why do so many Christian sex books portray men as doomed to sexual deviancy? 

We’re on a mission to change the conversation about sex in evangelical spaces. And to do that, we started by scoring our current best-sellers based on a Healthy Sexuality Scorecard. 

Want to see how your favourite book scored? 

You can download the rubric and scorecard (including quotes that explain the score) here, for free!

Get the rubric and scorecard--for free!