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How the Conversation about Lust Has Changed in Seven Years

How the Conversation about Lust Has Changed in Seven Years

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jul 31, 2024 | Sexual Intimacy

What Does Justice Look Like for the Toxic Teachings in the Church?

What Does Justice Look Like for the Toxic Teachings in the Church?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jun 28, 2024 | Theology of Marriage and Sex

Can there be justice for how the church has hurt people around marriage & sex? I was thinking about that question yesterday after episode 239 of the Bare Marriage podcast dropped, looking at the phenomenon of deconstruction. Specifically I was thinking about the...
PODCAST: Are We Saying Wives Don’t Have to Have Sex?

PODCAST: Are We Saying Wives Don’t Have to Have Sex?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Apr 4, 2024 | Libido, Podcasts

“So you think it’s okay if women just don’t have sex, then?” Whenever we talk about how sex should be mutual, intimate, and pleasurable for both, and that the obligation sex message is toxic, the reply we get is something along these...
PODCAST: Why Evangelical Honeymoons Go So Badly feat. Jay Stringer

PODCAST: Why Evangelical Honeymoons Go So Badly feat. Jay Stringer

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Mar 28, 2024 | Podcasts, Preparing for Marriage

Is the honeymoon all about the guy FINALLY getting sex? Nope. But too often evangelicals talk like this–and it has grave consequences. Licensed counselor Jay Stringer sent me a video a few weeks ago that he was really concerned about. SBC Megachurch pastor Josh...
PODCAST: Are We Creating a Strawman out of Complementarianism?

PODCAST: Are We Creating a Strawman out of Complementarianism?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Mar 7, 2024 | Podcasts, Theology of Marriage and Sex

Who is really a complementarian? Just when we think we’re finished arguing something, another critique pops up. And honestly–we had SUCH FUN doing this podcast! Keith and I planned it for several days beforehand, going over all the arguments we wanted to...
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Have you ever noticed that a lot of common Christian sex advice just sounds really icky?

Sex is supposed to be great. Like, really great. So great that it’s hard to keep your hands off each other great. 

So why do so many Christian marriage books present it as another chore to check off of a woman’s to-do list? 

Why do so many Christian sex books portray men as doomed to sexual deviancy? 

We’re on a mission to change the conversation about sex in evangelical spaces. And to do that, we started by scoring our current best-sellers based on a Healthy Sexuality Scorecard. 

Want to see how your favourite book scored? 

You can download the rubric and scorecard (including quotes that explain the score) here, for free!

Get the rubric and scorecard--for free!