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The Trends that Shaped Gen X Pastors and Gen X Church Women

The Trends that Shaped Gen X Pastors and Gen X Church Women

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Sep 21, 2026 | Research

I got up at 6 in the morning to watch Lady Diana Spencer marry Prince Charles Sixteen years later, I watched her funeral three times in succession in one day, starting at 4 in the morning (I was up anyway with a baby who didn’t sleep). I have tried to expain to...
The Roller Coaster of Emotions that is Live, Laugh, Love

The Roller Coaster of Emotions that is Live, Laugh, Love

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Sep 16, 2026 | Theology of Marriage and Sex

Learning how the sausage is made is not always a pleasant experience. But ignorance isn’t always bliss. And knowing the truth is fascinating, and maturing, and mesmerizing even as it evokes horror and disgust. In the last few years there have been a plethora of books...
The Podcast on The Making of Biblical Womanhood

The Podcast on The Making of Biblical Womanhood

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Nov 18, 2021 | Podcasts

The amazing Beth Allison Barr is joining me today to talk about women and the history of the church. One of the funniest things I often see when I go on Amazon and look up The Great Sex Rescue is the books that are recommended next to it.  It seems like people...
The Jesus and John Wayne Podcast with Kristin Kobes Du Mez!

The Jesus and John Wayne Podcast with Kristin Kobes Du Mez!

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jun 10, 2021 | Theology of Marriage and Sex

We’re so excited to have Kristin Kobes Du Mez join the podcast today! Kristin is the author of a book that is getting a ton of buzz–Jesus and John Wayne. Interestingly, The Great Sex Rescue is often recommended by Amazon to people who buy Jesus and John...
What Youth Group Was Like Before Purity Culture

What Youth Group Was Like Before Purity Culture

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Apr 26, 2021 | Theology of Marriage and Sex

I remember a conversation with my husband around 1992 about how the church was totally on the right track! We had dealt with some weird televangelism scandals and they were largely behind us. Women’s gifts were being used. A lot of the things that culture made...
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Have you ever noticed that a lot of common Christian sex advice just sounds really icky?

Sex is supposed to be great. Like, really great. So great that it’s hard to keep your hands off each other great. 

So why do so many Christian marriage books present it as another chore to check off of a woman’s to-do list? 

Why do so many Christian sex books portray men as doomed to sexual deviancy? 

We’re on a mission to change the conversation about sex in evangelical spaces. And to do that, we started by scoring our current best-sellers based on a Healthy Sexuality Scorecard. 

Want to see how your favourite book scored? 

You can download the rubric and scorecard (including quotes that explain the score) here, for free!

Get the rubric and scorecard--for free!