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What to Do When You’re Dreading Your Birthday

What to Do When You’re Dreading Your Birthday

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Nov 12, 2019 | Research

Sometimes life is just hard. And it’s often birthdays and holidays that mark the passage of time, and remind us when life isn’t going as planned. I write most of the posts on this blog, but I have a small team behind me. Rebecca (my daughter) writes a ton,...
PODCAST: Pregnancy Etiquette and How Systems Can Reduce Stress in Marriage

PODCAST: Pregnancy Etiquette and How Systems Can Reduce Stress in Marriage

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jul 11, 2019 | Podcasts

It’s time for a new episode of the Bare Marriage podcast! I hope you all will listen, but if you don’t have time, I’ll have some links and rabbit trails below so you can read all you want as well! And consider this podcast “extras”. If...
Grappling with Mother’s Day if You’ll Never Be a Mom

Grappling with Mother’s Day if You’ll Never Be a Mom

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | May 10, 2019 | Life

Most times, I post a piece celebrating moms the Friday before Mother’s Day. But there are many women on this blog and in our communities who struggle with infertility, miscarriages, or infant loss. If that’s your story, today I wanted to dedicate this...
10 Ways to Stay Close When You’re in a Period of Waiting

10 Ways to Stay Close When You’re in a Period of Waiting

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Nov 27, 2018 | Faith, Marriage

Waiting is hard. You have no control. There’s nothing you can do to make it better. And in those moments, how do you stay close to your spouse?I invited Joanna, who works for me, to write a post today on how she and Josiah have handled waiting in the last year,...

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Have you ever noticed that a lot of common Christian sex advice just sounds really icky?

Sex is supposed to be great. Like, really great. So great that it’s hard to keep your hands off each other great. 

So why do so many Christian marriage books present it as another chore to check off of a woman’s to-do list? 

Why do so many Christian sex books portray men as doomed to sexual deviancy? 

We’re on a mission to change the conversation about sex in evangelical spaces. And to do that, we started by scoring our current best-sellers based on a Healthy Sexuality Scorecard. 

Want to see how your favourite book scored? 

You can download the rubric and scorecard (including quotes that explain the score) here, for free!

Get the rubric and scorecard--for free!