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10 Ways Men Can Initiate Sex with Their Wives (Without pressuring her)

10 Ways Men Can Initiate Sex with Their Wives (Without pressuring her)

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Oct 25, 2023 | Libido

How do you initiate sex with your wife without turning her off? We’ve been working through an obligation sex series for the last few weeks, and one of the big things I’ve been stressing is that making your spouse feel like they are obligated to have sex...
Top 10 Tips for Initiating Sex with Your Husband

Top 10 Tips for Initiating Sex with Your Husband

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jul 8, 2020 | Sexual Intimacy

Out of the last five times you’ve made love, how many times have you initiated sex with your husband, and how many has he been the one to initiate? If you say he’s initiated all 5, that could be a problem! Now, I know sometimes you just start making love...
Should Doing Housework Be Considered Foreplay?

Should Doing Housework Be Considered Foreplay?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jun 9, 2020 | Libido

Have you all heard “sex begins in the kitchen”–not meaning that we should do interesting things with whipping cream, but that doing the dishes is a good method to get women to warm up? I hear this a lot–“Guys, if you want her to have sex...
10 Sexy Questions to Ask Your Husband

10 Sexy Questions to Ask Your Husband

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | May 19, 2020 | Sexual Intimacy

Want some sexy questions to ask your husband to get the party started? You’ve come to the right place! I’m getting ready for a big series in June when we’re going to talk about emotional labor and mental load, and we’ve been talking about some pretty...
The Terrible, Awful Downward Spiral of Libido Differences

The Terrible, Awful Downward Spiral of Libido Differences

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Mar 31, 2020 | Libido

Sometimes libido differences can send you on a negative spiral, where both of you are constantly feeling rejected. In about 7 weeks (yikes!) our manuscript for The Great Sex Rescue is due in at the publishers, so I’m frantically writing. I would have been doing...
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Have you ever noticed that a lot of common Christian sex advice just sounds really icky?

Sex is supposed to be great. Like, really great. So great that it’s hard to keep your hands off each other great. 

So why do so many Christian marriage books present it as another chore to check off of a woman’s to-do list? 

Why do so many Christian sex books portray men as doomed to sexual deviancy? 

We’re on a mission to change the conversation about sex in evangelical spaces. And to do that, we started by scoring our current best-sellers based on a Healthy Sexuality Scorecard. 

Want to see how your favourite book scored? 

You can download the rubric and scorecard (including quotes that explain the score) here, for free!

Get the rubric and scorecard--for free!