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Sexual Boundaries in Marriage Don’t Mean You’re Anti-Sex

Sexual Boundaries in Marriage Don’t Mean You’re Anti-Sex

by Rebecca Lindenbach | Nov 25, 2024 | Sexual Intimacy

Why are so many evangelical authors trying to convince married women not to have sexual boundaries? In episode 260 of the Bare Marriage podcast, that dropped last week, Rebecca and I had one of my favourite convos so far, when we looked at how too many evangelical...
Do Women Really Not Want Sex? Let’s Talk About The 90% And the 10%

Do Women Really Not Want Sex? Let’s Talk About The 90% And the 10%

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Apr 26, 2024 | Libido

PODCAST: Are We Saying Wives Don’t Have to Have Sex?

PODCAST: Are We Saying Wives Don’t Have to Have Sex?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Apr 4, 2024 | Libido, Podcasts

“So you think it’s okay if women just don’t have sex, then?” Whenever we talk about how sex should be mutual, intimate, and pleasurable for both, and that the obligation sex message is toxic, the reply we get is something along these...
NEW RESEARCH: Women Aren’t Turned On by Husbands Who Act Like Dependents

NEW RESEARCH: Women Aren’t Turned On by Husbands Who Act Like Dependents

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Feb 12, 2024 | Libido, Research

What happens to women’s desire level if their husbands don’t do housework? This month, our series on the blog is going to focus on some new studies that have recently been published in peer reviewed journals. We like keeping up with research, and we shared four new...
NEW RESEARCH SERIES: Is Sex Like Bad Ravioli?

NEW RESEARCH SERIES: Is Sex Like Bad Ravioli?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Feb 5, 2024 | Research, Series

What if men and women experience sex differently? This month, our series on the blog is going to focus on some new studies that have recently been published in peer reviewed journals. We like keeping up with research, and we shared four new studies on the podcast last...
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Have you ever noticed that a lot of common Christian sex advice just sounds really icky?

Sex is supposed to be great. Like, really great. So great that it’s hard to keep your hands off each other great. 

So why do so many Christian marriage books present it as another chore to check off of a woman’s to-do list? 

Why do so many Christian sex books portray men as doomed to sexual deviancy? 

We’re on a mission to change the conversation about sex in evangelical spaces. And to do that, we started by scoring our current best-sellers based on a Healthy Sexuality Scorecard. 

Want to see how your favourite book scored? 

You can download the rubric and scorecard (including quotes that explain the score) here, for free!

Get the rubric and scorecard--for free!